Can You Imagine 50 People a Day? Friends, They May Think It’s a Movement*
I’m putting on my brown heels, checking my appointments for the day, looking for some work I brought home, and grabbing some thank-yous to send later. No, I’m not, because I’m out of them. My daughter appears to be doing nothing, so I say, “Honey, could you write Mama a Post-It that says “thank-you notes” and stick it on my notebook so I remember to grab some later?”

“Thank You Knowt”
Unusual, I know. She’s gifted. It kinda grabbed me, and I started thinking about thank-you knowts.
Write them often. No, not emails. No. You can have them custom printed for very little, or just go buy some high-quality, traditional ones at the office store nearest to you. Then find an excuse to write a few every week. BY HAND. I used to work with a guy who giggled (literally) every time he sent them, because he had learned the more they went out of “style,” the more they actually became something people talked about, passed around, and something that drove word-of-mouth for him. I hear it all the time: “I haven’t gotten a thank-you note for years,” people tell me.
What do you write?
Thank you (for your time, effort, referral… whatever) NOTE: be timely! Don’t wait a week to do this!
A recap of what your favorite part of the (time, effort, etc.) was
The reason you will keep in touch
And another thing… something special to let them know you’re thinking of them
This may seem like basic info, but maybe you didn’t have a Mom like mine to drill this into you (repeatedly). If you did, have you written one since great-aunt Sally’s blue and yellow striped scarf in 1982?
Dear Joe,
Thanks for helping out at the charity auction last night. The way you showcased the furniture really drove bids and increased the take for XYZ tremendously!
I’ll send you pictures from the blah-blah conference next week. You’ll be missed! I hope you have a great time skiing at Okemo.
Regards,
Jane
This isn’t a trick to increase business, and it can’t be faked. You already do take a sincere interest in customers, prospects, and colleagues. This is remembering details long enough to write them down, to let someone feel the appreciation you already have for him (or her). The only “trick” is the delivery method: the good old postal service. It’s a standout method, and it works. If enough of us write them, people may think it’s a movement, and that’s what it is. It’s one more touchpoint, for you to create Maximum Customer Experience.
Ten minutes later, overcoat on, picking up notebook, the conversation followed the Post-It:
Me: Honey, how do you spell ‘note’?
She: N-O-T-E.
Me: Then why did you write, K-N-O-W-T?
She: Oh. *giggles* I don’t know…
I love that kid. She cracks me up. I’m gonna go write her a thank-you, and send it. She loves getting mail.
Grow and be well,
Kelly Erickson
*With apologies to Arlo Guthrie. :)












5 April 2008, 7:48 am
Wonderful to see someone tooting the trumpet of paper thank you notes!
I got my first piece of written “fan” mail this week. It really stood out from the emails I get, partly because of the content but also through sheer fear: someone took the time to track me down!
I’ve been thinking of getting some Moo cards made up as thank yous, and this article has convinced me to stop thinking about it and go for it. Thanks, Kelly.
5 April 2008, 9:16 am
Nick,
I’ve written a lot of posts on some of the littlest things in Customer Experience, and this is one of my favorites. The impact is instant, and I don’t know how many other things you can say that about!
Every post you write on paper productivity at Putting Things Off is such a kick for me to read. I’m glad I could encourage one more way to go back to basics.
I’ll tell you one other thing about handwritten thank-yous: I go back to visit with clients and I find them tacked to the bulletin board or propped on the desk like a photo of your kids would be. How many emails have you ever seen tacked to a bulletin board?
Sometimes I feel like I’m giving away all my secrets here.
Oh, wait. I am giving away all my secrets here. I love that! It’s not about having the secrets, it’s about going out, putting them all together, and putting them to use.
So Nick, if you go out and write a thank-you, come back and tell me what the reaction was. I’d love to hear about it.
Though it’s not handwritten: Thanks for commenting.
Regards,
Kelly
5 April 2008, 3:33 pm
Kelly, great post today, and it is so on the money. Never, never underestimate the power of a handwritten note. The impact is the same whether the thank you is for a gift, or a job interview. It sets you apart because you took the time to put pen to paper.
Thanks for the words – Brett
5 April 2008, 4:09 pm
Brett,
Absolutely. I have friends who actually say that the person who sends the thank-you after the interview is the one who gets the job. It’s that remarkable these days.
Until later,
Kelly
P.S. Re: Nostalgia, which we were discussing elsewhere—I kinda buried my own post with the guest-posting announcement yesterday. Timing is everything. If you haven’t read Experience: New York from Friday, you might get a kick out of it. It’s semi-OT in a good way. I do those once in a while.
6 April 2008, 10:01 am
Great post! I discovered the power of the handwritten note a couple of years ago and have received phone calls and emails of amazement and appreciation from those who have received them.
- Meredith
6 April 2008, 10:14 am
Meredith,
Thanks for the comment. Amazement, that really is the word for it. I haven’t stopped smiling since I wrote this, for remembering all the nice things people have said to me about thank-you notes. Glad to know another devotee of the handwritten note!
Regards,
Kelly
8 April 2008, 8:59 pm
I have been writing thank you notes for years. I think it really is a lost art. My favorite part is getting them!
8 April 2008, 9:13 pm
Brooke,
I can count on one hand how many I’ve gotten in the past five years. And not use all the fingers. Lost, indeed, but not hopeless. I think there’s an e-backlash starting. May more and more people discover the power of the pen and a piece of paper!
I heard a reporter talking about Charlton Heston yesterday on NPR. He had interviewed him in the 1970s for a local free weekly in D.C., I think, and a few days later he got a thank-you from him. The reporter said in his entire career it remains the only thank-you he’s ever gotten from an actor. Wow.
Regards,
Kelly
3 May 2008, 8:18 pm
Kelly,
As you know, we are of one mind on this one! As simple and silly as it sounds, a hand written note is one of the more powerful marketing tools out there.
After you buy the stationary, it’s basically free and takes about 10 minutes.
I wonder what would happen to someone’s business if they wrote one a day?
Drew
3 May 2008, 8:34 pm
Drew,
Thanks for stopping by! I liked your post on thank-yous. It’s great to see that so many people are closet note-writers. Thank goodness, there are lots of great parents like yours and mine out there, (forcing) encouraging their kids to learn the fine art of plain ol’ manners. May we all pass it on to our own little ones. Like many life lessons, they give you the “Aw, Dad” at the time, but later they realize… well, I haven’t gotten that far. Mine still gives me the “Aw, Mama.”
I’ll have to get back to you on that.
Regards,
Kelly
11 July 2008, 2:45 pm
I’m charmed by the word “Knowts.”
Beth from Avenue Z’s last blog post…Five unintentional ramifications from writing this blog
12 July 2008, 7:38 am
Beth,
Welcome! She’s a cutie, that kid of mine. “Knowts” kind of works as a memory device for me now. I’m glad you enjoyed it.
Thanks for your comment!
Regards,
Kelly