Leading Change Initiatives
Motivation=Wanting to do something.
Sounds simple, right?
It’s not.
Does Your Kid Take Out the Trash?
Mine does. I haven’t got all the mysteries of parenthood figured out, but that one goes well at my house. At age nine, my daughter likes to take out the trash. In our apartment complex, this involves a walk with me, to cross a busy parking lot, go to the trash corral, and throw our trash into the dumpster. Why does she want to do it with no prompting?
Time with Mama. A little walk-and-talk with nothing pressing to distract us. (Recognition)
It’s a contribution to the house that isn’t too taxing and makes a big difference. (Achievement)
I never force the task on her; she bosses me around and tells me when it’s time to do the job. (Responsibility)
The longer we do this job together, the more she is able to contribute: directing when to cross the street, getting tall enough to use the dumpster almost all by herself, etc. (Personal growth)
There’s a bonus at the end: people often put toys and furniture in the big corral, especially near holidays and moving time (beginning/end of month), so she may get to bring something fun back with us. (External push)
Why Do You Take Out the Trash?
Because otherwise, the house gets icky
Or the spouse gets cranky
Or there’s no room for more
Or it’s just a habitual part of your day
Or you’ll get a big thank-you at the end
What’s the difference? I am lucky to have a kid who has developed mainly internal motivators for taking out the trash. Recognition, achievement, responsibility, personal growth. Yes, the potential for a bonus is an external “motivator,” and some of our finds have been pretty great, but these are infrequent enough that they are not a major influence.
Most adults are pushed by external factors to take out the trash: the prospect of a reward for completion or a punishment for avoidance of the task. The carrot and the stick. The satisfaction of a job well done got lost somewhere along the way. You don’t want the trash taken out, you want the carrot to be given or the threat of the stick to go away.
Trash Removal Is a Need, After All. Why Should We Like Doing It?
I’m going to let you in on a secret. When I was a teen in college, I used to clean houses for people. I liked doing it. I did more than necessary to earn my ten bucks an hour. Sure, the carrot of my four hours’ pay was there. That wasn’t too much, even then. Owners were rarely there while I was working, so I can’t say that their praise was significant. It was just plain nice to transform a house once a week. I got referred on and on, because the results of liking my work really showed.
That’s not the secret. The secret lies in those owners. Some people like a clean house. Some people like having their house cleaned.
When I came back, week after week, the same people’s houses needed barely anything. This meant I could do really in-depth stuff, making their house shine more and more every week. These folks had the internal motivation of loving a clean house; I just freed them to maintain it. And every week, the same people’s houses were utterly trashed as if I’d never been there at all. I’d spend so long just picking up junk, that I could barely get to the floors and the dusting, before the four hours were up. I pushed a clean house on them, but their own motivation was so completely gone that they had even outsourced the minimal stuff like picking up their socks off the living room floor.
Liking having a clean house resulted in having a clean house for some owners. Having an external factor come in and clean their house could not result in a clean house for others. Internal motivation gets things done; external pushing gets things done half-assed. Crude, but true.
The Second Secret
Yes, I’m going to let you in on another secret. I wrote earlier that I am lucky to have a kid who has developed mainly internal motivators. I’m not that lucky. I’ve been leading her there all along, and she has the internal motivators I intended to instill. I also wrote that I haven’t got all the mysteries of parenthood figured out, and to prove that—though I think I’ve followed the same path with homework, it’s pretty much on the carrot-and-stick level. The results aren’t 100%, but following the path toward internal motivation is critical.
Why Pushing Change Always Fails
Motivation=Wanting to do something.
As you manage your staff, you probably try two tactics to motivate those precious human resources. You praise, “communicate” (or my least favorite, “treat them like family”), offer pay raises, bonuses, privileges, or other incentives; or you scold, frown, write and enforce reviews, take away plum assignments, threaten termination. You prefer the first tactics, but resort to the second as necessary. Every year, you up the ante on the rewards to further motivate employees who got the extras last year. So, why aren’t your employees motivated?*
You’ve taken their internal motivations away. Simple.
In each case, who wants the change? You, the manager. You are pushing changes; the employee is just trying to catch the reward or avoid the punishment. The employee no longer wants what you want.
To lead, you must stop pushing changes NOW. Leaders create the opportunity for internal motivation to take hold.
From Manager to Leader
Almost every owner or manager I talk to who is dissatisfied with the company’s growth will eventually point to their staff. “I love this work,” they say. “I’d do it without pay. Every year I offer more for good performance, but they don’t love the work and don’t want the company to succeed like I do. What’s going on?”
What drives us to give our best efforts?
- Recognition
- Achievement
- Responsibility
- Personal growth
So what can I say to this owner?
Dear Owner
Dear Ms. Owner:
When you tell me how much you love this company, you do not talk about the work (unless it’s to tell me that 19-hour days do not pain you), or the pay (owners are often paid less than their top staff), or the great hours, benefits, or privileges. You tell me about devotion, about the day you first went “in the black,” the first time the local press gave you a glowing review, or how getting to know your customers has made you a better person.
Are your employees sharing in that success? They crave what you crave. The glow of an unbiased opinion; the satisfaction of doing a job better than anyone knew it could be done; the chance to influence and create company growth themselves; personal attachment to outcomes; feeling like their excellent work makes a difference, and that each day they become even more excellent!
Your staff want to go home and say to friends and family: “This job rocks. When I am there, I rock. I can hardly wait to see what happens tomorrow.” That, Ms. Owner, is when staff become brand Propheteers.
It isn’t money that is driving talented people out of the workforce and into self-employment in droves. It’s impotence. Nothing is more demoralizing than the feeling that you do not matter, that your forseeable future looks exactly like your present, and that you are spinning your wheels.
Ms. Owner, to lead you will have to give up some control. A leader is not a manager of each employee’s moments. A leader is a guide to the company’s Vision, chief cheerleader and creator of excitement. A manager dictates employee actions; a leader shapes and trusts employee desires.
A manager offers rewards for expected outcomes; a leader acknowledges extraordinary, unexpected results
A manager schedules performance reviews; a leader asks for personal accountability
A manager piles on the work with no obvious Purpose; a leader maintains focus on well defined outcomes, leaving methods to the employee
A manager treats staff “like family,” with empathy, in a hands-on way, and sometimes gets familial disrespect in return; a leader treats staff like critical stakeholders and responsible adults in their own right, knows how to relax, but never lets work becomes a codependency
A manager automates and simplifies; a leader removes layers of approvals and other barriers to success
Ms. Owner, my best wishes for your continued growth.
Leading Transformation
We owners love our companies. We are always looking for the magic potion that will make employees fall in love, too. Poor employee performance is a major pain point in Experience Design. Whether you are an owner or an employee yourself, you have probably seen him: the guy who does only what he’s told, collects the paycheck, and runs out the door at 5. Mr. Minimum. Always ready with a complaint at your expense; ready to bolt at the first offer that looks a bit better than yours. No loyalty, no matter how much you “treat him like family.”
If you are managing your employees, the bad news is you created Mr. Minimum. The good news is, with patience you can lead. Though human factors are never perfectly engineered, you can leave the carrot and stick behind.
Motivation=Wanting to do something.
You can say of your staff: “I’ve been leading them there all along, and they have the internal motivators I intended to instill. They know what we’re about, they are empowered to do their best for our success, and they love this company like I do. They want to be here. They want to tell our customers what’s great about us. Some of them would do it if they weren’t being paid. They are our biggest fans.”
You can’t “push change” if you want major, long-term results. You can lead growth, through this essential shift toward internal motivation.
If you really care about your staff as family, then start creating jobs that are fulfilling, exciting, and filled with challenges, just like their Mamas wish for them. Stop enabling them to howl about chores, and start driving them toward fun, enrichment, and adventure when they take out the trash.
It takes time, but look at it this way: It’s easier than getting your kid to love spelling homework.
What parts of your work would you do for free? How could a focus on internal motivators change the quality of work your company does?
Grow and be well,
Kelly Erickson
*Thanks to Frederick Herzberg, author of “One More Time: How Do You Motivate Employees?” (1968, 1987) for the Harvard Business Review [subscription required], who taught me that a Kick in the Ass is nothing like the internal desire to excel.













28 April 2008, 7:48 am
Kelly,
This is very timely (and very well written). I’m smiling as I’m about to embark on a day (and a week) working for managers. Not leaders.
And I’ll tell you this:
I have a thick skin, so the stick isn’t stinging so much anymore. I don’t like carrots much these days. And I’m smart.
So with some hard work, I’ll be out of carrot and stick country.
When the carrots aren’t appetizing and the stick isn’t working, what happens to your smart employees?
Exactly. They leave town.
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-Brett
28 April 2008, 12:47 pm
Love this post and the lesson of it, Those internal motivators have more lasting power, more energizing effect. and Brett’s comment is so true. comment.
Leading transformation…I am going to make a blatant and timely entreaty on just this. Go to my post today and do a little transforming for the kids of New Orleans.
Here’s the thing I like about Kelly. She wants to make the world a better place. She chooses businesses, a place where we spend a lot of time and impact so many people. Good experiences ripple, create a contagious wave, that practically magnetizes and draws the good stuff back.
Good one Kelly. Lovely reminder on how to bring the humanness into the experience.
All best, Jan
28 April 2008, 2:10 pm
Hm. I’d like to hear this article using a teen instead. Wonder what the suggestions might be… motivation? God. If I can find the key, I’d be rich. And I’d have a clean trashcan.
28 April 2008, 3:14 pm
Brett,
I wrote the skeleton for this a couple of months ago but couldn’t make it gel. When I decided I was ready to revamp it, I probably thought of your workplace more than the one which had been my original inspiration. A little distance, a few new horror stories to inspire me, and finally I can put it out in the world.
A lot of people just don’t see what’s wrong with the carrot. If I give my kid a treat for cleaning her room, what’s wrong with that?
She’s trained me, that’s what’s wrong. She has no more internal motivation than before, but I’ve been trained to offer rewards for behavior that’s an expected minimum.
Same at work. Worse yet, if you give me a carrot this year as a bonus for doing what’s expected, next year I’ll expect two carrots. If you only give me a half a carrot, I’ll feel I’ve been cheated. Wasn’t that carrot mine? How dare you take it away!
Janice,
WHen it comes down to it, Maximum Customer Experience is instant karma, plus time-released karma. Shh don’t tell, or else what will I write about for the next twelve years?
James,
The key to your teen is the same as how Tony Lawrence gets his readers: start in 1997.
Regards,
Kelly
28 April 2008, 6:04 pm
Kelly,
Well, you sure did paint the picture that is sometimes where I am. The people are by and large great, the work is good. We just need “leaders”.
I am actually going to write a post that is somewhat related to your post here. I think you’ll enjoy it.
-Brett
28 April 2008, 6:21 pm
Brett,
That’s the genius of this medium. Riffing off other ideas, spontaneously. Sometimes, putting out a post and discovering that someone else has said a very similar thing the same morning. Remembering that Mr. Rogers (yes, that Mr. Rogers) was a very wise dude when he told kids, “You learn something old every day.”
Sure, but we each spin our knowledge our own unique way.
You know I will enjoy it! I love your writing.
Until later,
Kelly
28 April 2008, 9:07 pm
Kelly, incredible and right on target! It’s funny that companies are falling all over themselves to “engage” customers but have failed to do the same for those who have the power to be company evangelists.
28 April 2008, 9:21 pm
Kelly,
You know the craft so well, each of us has a unique voice and we add to the choir.
As many have said, this medium is the future of writing. Nothing else can match the agility, and the reach.
Mr. Rogers would blog, and blog well.
-Brett
28 April 2008, 9:32 pm
Karen,
That is absolutely true. Engagement is critical, but so many companies fail to see that engaged staff will create customer engagement a lot faster than staff who are just putting one foot in front of the other because you said so.
I’m glad you enjoyed it!
Regards,
Kelly
28 April 2008, 9:38 pm
Brett,
Agility. An excellent word for blogging when it’s done well.
That was one wise dude. (I said that already, but I really mean it so I’ll say it twice.) You’re right, he would be really good at blogging. What a neat idea.
Later,
Kelly
28 April 2008, 10:30 pm
Kelly,
I like that word, as a description of the tools we have at our disposal today.
The world is truly ours, if we embrace it. Agility – we can almost react before the change these days.
Hmm. Mr. Rogers the blogger. A blog post, perhaps.
-Brett
28 April 2008, 10:44 pm
Brett,
You nearly read my mind. I have a whole series of “heroes” I’d like to use as post inspirations, something like “Experience Design if I were Jim Henson,” to use my very very biggest hero as an example (what a force!). But I haven’t had time to figure out what they can bring to the table.
“Mr. Rogers the Blogger,” by Mr. Legree. I like it.
If it makes you insanely famous with the four-year-old set, I’ll wave and say I knew you when.
Later,
Kelly
29 April 2008, 12:15 am
Kelly,
I think “great minds think alike”
Jim Henson = awesome. I loved that guy. I saw a little book with his quotes called “It’s Not Easy Being Green”. I think I’ll buy it next time I see it.
If I become insanely famous, you won’t have to wave as you’ll be right there with me.
-Brett
29 April 2008, 6:49 am
Brett,
My Mom got me that book a year or two ago. It is worth it. A quick read and very inspiring. Do get it.
Later,
Kelly
29 April 2008, 9:06 am
Kelly,
I will do that then. The Hallmark store in our local mall has it.
On the list for the weekend!
-Brett
29 April 2008, 10:44 am
Kelly
I totally agree! External motivation is half-assed.
Right now, I’m working at a job I don’t like. My motivation is that I better do my work, or I’ll get in sh**t. Plus I get a paycheck.
So as a result, I do an adequate, passable job. But but not a great job.
Years ago, I had a pretty good boss. I was driven to excel, not only for the money, but because I respected him and I WANTED his approval.
As a result, I thrived in that environment.
This to me was the perfect example of being a good ‘Leader’ versus a ‘Manager’.
Unfortuantely, good leaders are few and far between.
(Sigh). Now back to my paycheck-job.
I remember I had a good boss once. I was motivated to do a good job, not only because I was getting paid, but I also wanted his approval. I respected his opinion, and I hoped he would be happy with my contribution.
29 April 2008, 10:46 am
Kelly
Oops. Sorry about the typos in my last comment (The last sentence was hidden in the comment box)
29 April 2008, 7:52 pm
Of course kids taking out the trash grabs my attention. I don’t believe in carrots, but I do believe in self respect and internal motivation. That’s why kids should take out the trash. If they don’t do it, what are they going to do in their own house? How will their lives turn out on a bigger scale? I mean, really, we can use trash as a metaphor for so many other things.
29 April 2008, 11:26 pm
Friar,
That’s the thing about paychecks. They’re everywhere. There has to be more to it than that, or eventually that incentive is going to wear very thin. And how much did the “ooh you’re in trouble” method ever work, even when we’re kids? Once you’re an adult, there’s a certain amount of so-what to that method.
Thanks for your comment!
Ellen,
I agree. Those folks I used to pick socks up for, you just know they never took the trash out as kids. No internal motivation; no leader at home when they were young (trying) to teach them the joy of doing excellent work. I wonder how they were at their jobs: the lazy ones always waiting for someone else to do the task that took them a bit out of their comfort zone, I’d guess.
I’d be glad to use trash as a larger metaphor, but not homework. Not until I figure out why that doesn’t work the same way for us.
(As I was writing this post I asked my daughter why she likes doing the trash, making the bathroom shine, and some other chores but the desire to do homework does not seem to come from within, and she said, “Those things are fun. Homework isn’t.” I commented that I always try to show that homework is as fun as anything else and she said, “It just isn’t.” Hmm.)
Somebody once said something I shall now mangle badly—
I don’t care if you’re a CEO or a garbage collector. As long as you’re the best darned garbage collector you can possibly be, I’ll respect you as much as the CEO.
Regards,
Kelly
30 April 2008, 12:27 pm
Great post! When I first had people reporting to me at work, I was terrified. How do I do this? My boss told me to be the boss I wanted to have. So, I met with my team and asked them what they wanted. I worked hard to make sure I was helping each of them meet their individual goals while making it clear as crystal what my goals were and why. As a result, they worked their asses off for me and we got more accomplished than I ever thought possible. We were truly a team.
All this is in the past tense because I now work in a different team where I don’t have people reporting to me. Honestly, it’s a bit of a relief. Leading is hard. But I kinda miss it…
30 April 2008, 2:41 pm
Sandie,
That’s a great story, and excellent words from your boss.
I’ll bet they miss you on that team more than you miss them, because even with the great advice your boss gave you, a lot of people just wouldn’t know how to be that leader.
Thanks for your comment!
Regards,
Kelly
1 May 2008, 12:40 pm
Yes, yes, yes.
I’m Brett;s friend and found you through him.
I just forwarded this to my boss. He used to lead and we used to grow. Now he manages us to death. I am hoping he will see the light before the other half of the staff leaves.
1 May 2008, 2:22 pm
Francis,
I hope it helps. If not, there are about 110 others here that may help in some way. Drip, drip, drip. Sometimes it takes a lot of aha! minutes to make up the big moment. The fact that you dropped him a link to this shows that you have a lot of respect for him. A lot of people wouldn’t even try.
Thanks for stopping in and commenting, Francis, I hope you’ll make MCE a regular read!
Regards,
Kelly
2 May 2008, 4:01 pm
Kelly –
I enjoyed your post. And I agree that pushing change does usually fail.
In my work with clients, I emphasize why before how. People need to see why something needs to be done before they are ever interested in how to go about changing something. We often miss that step.
But why is tricky. It’s not “why its important from my point-of-view,” but why from the other person’s perspective.
I did an informal study a few years ago and found that companies that did a great job of addressing why, often didn’t face show-stopping resistance later on. And their success rate was higher.
Rick Maurer
http://www.beyondresistance.com
http://www.changemanagementnews.com (blog)
2 May 2008, 4:48 pm
Rick,
I agree. “Why” from the employee’s point of view can be very helpful.
I read something a while back (can’t remember where…) that said a lot of change initiatives go well for 18 months, then stop dead. The momentum of just doing something carries the program for a while, and when the newness wears off—out with the CEO, because it didn’t keep going. I think “why” alone isn’t enough. People appreciate your reasons, thought out from their point of view, but it still all comes down to those internal motivators.
Unless, of course, you’re telling them that they’ll get growth and responsibility and achievement and advancement out of it… but that’s going to come off as condescending. They’ll tell you if they get internal motivation from their work.
A mix of the “why” and less hands-on leadership is probably the best combination.
Thanks for your thoughtful comment and the mention at your blog!
Regards,
Kelly
29 May 2008, 3:21 pm
Managing employees is hard work…as previously mentioned in a post above. Yet it’s the top priority for a manager.
I specifically appreciate the point you made that leaders expect personal accountability. This empowers the employee to do their best or they don’t succeed.
Listening and setting clear expectations are two key attributes of a strong leader.
Thanks for the post.
Pat
29 May 2008, 6:24 pm
Pat,
I agree, listening and setting clear expectations, then getting out of the way, will get the best results and allow employees to take ownership of their work.
Welcome and thanks for the comment!
Regards,
Kelly