Offering the Ideal Solution:
Do you need to know everything about your customer?
Demographics are stale. Maybe even dead. We live in a global world— “white guys from Hoboken, New Jersey, with an Audi and a subscription to Sports Illustrated” isn’t what you need to know about your customers, and frankly, I doubt it’s true. If you know what circumstances brought the buyer to you, you can look for ways to target that circumstance.
While I recommend you know everything you can about him or her, you don’t need to know everything about your customer—even though you have an Ideal Customer, and for some businesses, they may even fit a certain demographic. That doesn’t make them your ideal.
That customer is your ideal because when they have a need, they remember that you have the Ideal Solution.
When they have a need
Your buyers came to you when… X.
Know what X is, you can look for people who are about to have X in their lives, and build a relationship with them in advance.
If you’re a blog author, picture that circumstance when writing the blog, then weave it into the narrative over time. You’ll get bored coming back to the theme over and over, but you’ll never bore the reader who says, “Yeah, that’s me, today! He really understands X, and I know he can help!”
If you’re a store owner, work it into your marketing materials, and make sure your staff knows all about X, too. To stand out from the crowd of wanna-bes, they’ve got to be trained in empathy for the symptoms (even if it’s needing a lipstick after The Essential *Boom* hits). They’ve got to look for the telltale signs, they’ve got to cater to the needs. You are in business for your customers, and when they choose you as the Ideal Solution to their problems, you can not afford to disappoint them. You’ve got to engineer delight.
Look for people who are about to have X in their lives
If you wait to build a relationship after X has come and gone, the business will go to those they already liked, trusted, and had faith in before that circumstance arose.
Who loses out?
The luncheonette I drive past on my way home from work every day. I’m forever saying, “Next time I want a new experience,” but when next time comes, I’ve forgotten them. (Until I drive home….)
The catalogue that comes with a nice fat coupon the week after I bought a tool that does the job, maybe not as well, locally.
The baby product manufacturers who drown new parents in marketing materials after the hospital sticks them on a mailing list (almost ten years later, I’m still plagued by this junk!). Too late. I bought everything before the seventh month when it seemed like “any day now”; I got recommendations from friends before I ever saw your irritating pink-bow mailers; I wouldn’t be swayed by cheap glossy mom-and-baby shots even if I’d waited, because right after baby’s born I’m thinking I should save the Earth for her and you’re cutting down trees to interrupt my bliss.
Build the relationship first. You’ll find your own way to do that, but keep this in mind: It isn’t who wandered into your shop, office, or blog that you need to know—it’s Why today?
Think back to the last new purchase you made, last new service you decided to try, or the last new restaurant you visited. Why that day? What circumstances made you change your buying behavior?
Grow and be well,
Kelly Erickson












11 November 2008, 9:01 am
I came to Staples to buy an external hard-drive for my computer….
….WHEN that was the only place within a 1 hour drive that carried a variety of brand names and models to choose from.
Okay, maybe that’s not such a great example. I went to Staples by Default. I go to a LOT of businesses here by default.
But it was good for them. Because while I was there, I also bought a filing cabinet for my office. I had been wanting to get one for months and I hadn’t found what I liked at Ikea.
Suprisingly, Staples had some models made of nice wood and the price was reasonable. And the 18 year old serving me was really nice and helpful (how UNUSUAL…!)
11 November 2008, 10:31 am
I know too much. I know too much.
*smacks the excess knowledge out*
Ok, putting on the serious hat…
Yeah, there’s a BIG difference between knowing them and knowing what they need/want. I can know you really well, put you in a little box (of demographic) and target you as though I know what you need based on who I think you are. Or, I can ask you… I prefer the asking. The “getting to know you” portion is great — but no, we don’t need to know everything. My brain is half-full of stuff I don’t need to know already.
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11 November 2008, 10:50 am
Why Now is a GREAT question!!!!!
This is brilliant Kelly.
I honestly don’t want to add a thing. Except yep, I agree 100%
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11 November 2008, 11:15 am
Hi Kelly,
This statement “You’ll get bored coming back to the theme over and over, but you’ll never bore the reader who says, “Yeah, that’s me, today! He really understands X, and I know he can help!” was like a thunk on the head. Isn’t it funny that as a reader I get this but had failed to apply it to myself? Duh! the entire post was filled with just incredible insight, “why today?” As a buyer the “why today” is because today I had the need, desire, problem and you did a good job of lodging yourself in my consciousness before this day came. You developed a relationship with me by sending me a message that resonated. I felt I could trust you. You were not schlocky or gimmicky and you did not overhype. I did not need you yesterday but tucked you away for future reference and today is that future.
Ah, but you knew this because you demonstrate this day in and day out.
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11 November 2008, 10:29 pm
Friar,
I hear you, “default” is hard to analyze, but still, you could have chosen an online resource, you could have asked Mom to look in Saskatchewan (where’s Mom?)… you went, hoping to get to see and touch as opposed to the coldness, the wait for shipping, and the lingering questions of online (or of having one’s mother choose an ext. hard drive…).
Your X… When you had an emergency need and wanted more selection than the next closer place where the choice is “take it or leave it” and hoped for some help and needed to get out of itty-bitty-ville anyway. I hope Staples knows that is the circumstance they’re serving when they’re near less populated areas, because there’s no way you’re the only person who wanders in there in exactly that situation.
Amy,
(Sounds like the Chicago mob may be looking for you next… I had to think about “I know too much” for a sec, LOL!)
Big difference. Not that there’s any thing wrong with demographics (besides the stale and dead part), but they don’t tell the more urgent part of the story.
Wendi,
*big big grin* Thank you!
Karen,
My new tagline: “Get thunked.”
No?
Okay, seriously, I wish I had written this sentence: “I did not need you yesterday but tucked you away for future reference and today is that future.” Yup. That’s the essence of what we have to figure out. How to get tucked away in the right minds (the ones likely to have a this need, not the ones with the Audi and 1.4 children) until the right moment.
And thanks!
Regards,
Kelly
12 November 2008, 1:56 am
I’m not so good on theory, big on examples, so let me see if I understand:
1. I figure out what the need is (on a self-discovery journey and don’t want to get lost, or are already lost and need help).
2. Build relationships with people who haven’t quite yet made the decision to start or who have started but not yet lost (or at least don’t think they’re lost).
3. Be the first thing they think of when they are at the decision point.
Yes?
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12 November 2008, 7:04 am
Alex,
Absolutely.
1. Check in with current clients, or with your second-tier—the most enthusiastic supporters who aren’t yet clients, but whom you know follow you pretty closely. Find out what gets someone to That Moment when they’re ready for moving past Someday Syndrome. That’s your X… “Why today?”
2. Vary the method, of course, but talk pretty frequently about That Moment. Build relationships with people who will get there, by talking about when you were there, when a friend was there, the hazards of ignoring those telltale signs that you’re there, etc…. so they’ll recognize X (That Moment).
3. So they’ll think about it a bit more, build awareness and even build up their need to deal with it, and so when they’re there, they’ll remember that you know all about it.
Yes.
Until later,
Kelly