How long can you resist the best chocolate in the city?
Sitting on the cool, granite countertop, there lay a beautiful box of gourmet chocolates, brought in by a grateful supplier to thank the staff for a year of superb word-of-mouth referrals. The red leather top was embossed with the name of the finest chocolatier in town. Inside lay dozens of mouthwatering delicacies, in flavors that could tempt the most ascetic of dieters into just one, lusciously robed, fall from grace.
The box sat with empty spaces for the three candies which had been eaten on the first day, for almost a month. Then someone asked if they could take it home for a family gathering, and it was gone.
The next week a 1-lb. gift box of drugstore chocolates was dropped off by a friend, who set the open box on the granite counter with a resounding thwapp of plastic and cheap cardboard box. “If I keep these at home, I’ll really need a New Year’s resolution or two. Have fun.”
They were gone in a day.
Yes. The cheap ones.
Lesson in Experience Design?
The open box.
How can you open up what you do, so the sight, the smell, the temptation of it is too much for a passerby to resist?
Grow and be well,
Kelly Erickson













13 January 2009, 8:55 am
What can we do, to make the tempation too much for passerbys to resist?
One word.
FREE.
If you give it away, people will come.
(Remember that free Harvey’s Hamburger give-a-way we discussed last year?)
Friar’s last blog post…Calorie Counting with Perfesser Friar
13 January 2009, 10:54 am
Wow Kelly, this was one of those analogies that knocked the wind out of me with its truth. I wish I had thought of it! Now of course I am going to block out some time today to really think how I can do that with my business. Brilliant, truly brilliant. By the way, never commented but I so love the new photo and do, combined with the hot legs, quite a package. Off to hunt down gorgeous men and point them this way.
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13 January 2009, 11:04 am
Oooh, new haircut (very nice!)
What else can we do to make the temptation too much for passersby?
Get naked!
(sorry, couldn’t help it)
Okay, there was a serious side to that – you can get naked while being fully clothed. As you say, the open box of chocolates. Or transparent communication, open and honest.
-Brett
Brett Legree’s last blog post…week 6 – final exam.
13 January 2009, 11:13 am
I want to hear more about this analogy because I don’t think I’m understanding.
Tthe first box said, “break your diet for these bad boys, you would be a fool not to.” The Second box said, “need a sugar fix?” Why did people dig into the second box and not the first? Is if people thought they didn’t deserve to enjoy the first box of chocolates. So are you telling us not to aim too high. Not to be elitist? Be more Kmart, less Maces? Or maybe it’s be accessible to your target market?
Looking forward to reading more on this conversation,
Rachel
13 January 2009, 11:51 am
@Brett
“transparent communication, open and honest”.
Ooh…that’s so DEEP!
I like your “get naked” better, in the literal sense.
@Kelly
Hmmm…brainstorming here. What else could we do to attract passerbys?
Monkeys. You can never have enough monkeys.
I’m partial to the 20-foot inflatable gorillas on the roof.
Friar’s last blog post…Calorie Counting with Perfesser Friar
13 January 2009, 12:59 pm
@Friar,
Hey, I always figure a good business strategy is to do *THE EXACT OPPOSITE* from what they’re doing at The Factory…
Oh, and make sure they are 20-foot inflatable NAKED gorillas. Gets ‘em every time.
Brett Legree’s last blog post…week 6 – final exam.
13 January 2009, 1:15 pm
@Brett
Naked inflatable gorillas.
Is that a banana, or is the monkey just glad to see me?
Friar’s last blog post…Calorie Counting with Perfesser Friar
13 January 2009, 1:21 pm
@Friar,
Seeing as he’s 20 feet tall, I’d say he’s *REALLY* happy to see you
(Naughty monkey!)
Brett Legree’s last blog post…week 6 – final exam.
13 January 2009, 1:32 pm
@Brett
I’m just glad it’s NOT ME that would have to blow up the monkey.
Friar’s last blog post…Calorie Counting with Perfesser Friar
13 January 2009, 1:37 pm
True, you never know where they might put the plug…
Brett Legree’s last blog post…week 6 – final exam.
13 January 2009, 1:47 pm
@Brett
That’s why they have hand-pumps…
Friar’s last blog post…Calorie Counting with Perfesser Friar
13 January 2009, 1:49 pm
@Friar,
I could comment on that one too (something about graham crackers) but…
Brett Legree’s last blog post…week 6 – final exam.
13 January 2009, 1:52 pm
Darn it, you guys!
13 January 2009, 1:54 pm
Kelly,
I was tweeting to Alex about how Friar & I were considering hiring ourselves out to drum up comments on blogs (and/or extort money from people to make us go away!)
Looks like we did it again…
^ ^
. .
^
o
-Brett
Brett Legree’s last blog post…week 6 – final exam.
13 January 2009, 2:09 pm
“Oh oh. Mom’s home. Uh, hi Mom.”
Go away for a few hours… will I never learn?
Friar,
You started off serious and I was with you. Sure, free works. But these were both free. There was only one difference here…
Karen,
Thanks. Sometimes the shortest posts are the ones that take the most thought, to pare it down to only what I’m hoping we’ll focus on. Glad you enjoyed it.
Brett,
Transparency works for me. I was thinking more literally, but sure, that too.
Rachel,
If you were hoping your fellow commenters would enlighten you, oh, dear. I think somebody spiked the punch at The Factory where they work.
There’s really only one difference here, and it has nothing to do with the chocolates themselves, or with aiming high or low. The first box was closed.
Nobody wanted to appear greedy, perhaps, by opening it and being caught with their hand in the box.
Nobody wanted to take that extra minute to open it, to see what was left.
Maybe they assumed it was closed because it was empty, or because it was off-limits.
Certainly the smell didn’t waft by them to tempt them (and believe me, they would have been far more tempting… I know these chocolates).
The visual, I suspect, was the number one problem. An open box of chocolates says “Here! Other people have had some, you go ahead!” A closed box says “It’s work to find out whether you even want one.”
Thanks for your comment, and welcome!
Regards,
Kelly
13 January 2009, 2:09 pm
Oh, my… I’m wiping tears from my eyes… you guys crack me up! It’s so off topic it’s hilarious!
Before I read all these gorilla comments, I was going to say (still laughing so much it hurts…) I was going to say that it surprised me (I can’t even type…) it surprised me that people went for the cheap chocolates at first. (big sigh – my chest hurts from laughing)
I can see this happening though… people’s best manners, or is it insecurities, come out when something really nice is put out. They don’t want to look greedy. But you put out some run of the mill stuff and people forget all that and grab a piece. Hmm.
What does that mean to marketers? Maybe it means that you have to do more than just put out shiny objects, or things that have a high perceived value. Maybe, as marketers, we have to make sure our customers feel completely comfortable taking what we offer.
Maybe no one takes the good chocolate because they don’t want to feel indebted to the giver for such a nice thing. Only enemies and lovers give away things that nice. Maybe it makes people think or ask, why are they doing this. They lose sight of generous motion, and wonder about motives.
So maybe, as marketers, we have to be sure we’ve built up a lot of trust first. Then the gift will be accepted more readily. Am I reading too much into all this? It’s just a box of chocolate, for God’s sake!
Todd Smith’s last blog post…Photography Newsletter: Quiet Time Around Home
13 January 2009, 2:10 pm
oh, one more… just ’cause I forgot to hit “notify me of follow comments” hehehe
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13 January 2009, 2:19 pm
(Good thing we’re sort of pulling punches, eh Friar?)
I had a similar experience buying cars, twice. The first time was my very first car.
I had to decide between a Honda Civic and and a Pontiac Sunbird (back in ’92). At the Honda dealership, the salesman wanted to come with me and he *didn’t* want my father in the back seat.
The Pontiac salesman said, “here’s the keys – have fun and bring it back in one piece”.
Fast forward 11 years, buying my second car. Silly me, went to Honda again, looking at a loaded Accord. Bloody salesman wanted to ride shotgun.
Went to VW – salesman gave me the walk-around to show me how everything worked (lots of techno doo-dads in a VW), and handed me the keys. When I got back he said, “Fast, isn’t it?” – perhaps I was smiling…
Happy VW driver here. Sorry Honda. Your chocolate box was closed.
Brett Legree’s last blog post…week 6 – final exam.
13 January 2009, 2:42 pm
@Kelly
Honest, Mom. That lamp was already busted before you left!
Friar’s last blog post…Calorie Counting with Perfesser Friar
13 January 2009, 2:59 pm
Todd,
Looks like we hit “submit” at the same time. My thoughts on the chocolates, right above yours.
Brett,
Cool story. I like that. Fascinating that over time, Honda hadn’t rethought the “strategy”!
Friar,
You boys have too much time on your hands. I’m going to call the school and see if they can’t give you two more homework…
… or Ritalin.
Love to both in spite of the monkeys.
Until later,
Kelly
13 January 2009, 3:14 pm
Kelly,
I’m glad you liked that story, I like telling it. I’ve nothing personal against Honda and I think they make good cars. This is just the sort of thing that can lose a potential lifelong customer for a company, I guess.
They’d give us Ritalin but then we’d be “unfit for duty”…
-Brett
Brett Legree’s last blog post…ultimate self-help tool – free for a limited time!
13 January 2009, 3:19 pm
(*Spinning in circles, overdosed on Ritalin*)
“Eeeeeeeee! Eeeeeeee! Eeeeeeeeeee!”
Maybe I should wear a hockey helmet to work!
Friar’s last blog post…Calorie Counting with Perfesser Friar
13 January 2009, 3:36 pm
It’s like guys who are afraid to ask the gorgeous girl out….the chocolates, I mean. I so would have asked what the deal was, opened the box, and passed them around. They were gourmet chocolates for goodness sakes!
Janice Cartier’s last blog post…Why Robert Redford Is A Hero
13 January 2009, 3:39 pm
Janice – yeah, great idea!! Take the intimidation out of it. Make people feel good about taking the good chocolate.
Todd Smith’s last blog post…Photography Newsletter: Quiet Time Around Home
13 January 2009, 3:42 pm
Janice, Todd,
I agree. I was amazed that the box was left closed. If it hadn’t been, I wouldn’t have gotten a post out of it, so I can’t complain…
I think the deal is that while it’s easy to see the psychology now, it wasn’t so easy to see what the effect would be at the time. That gorgeous lid was a very powerful deterrent.
Later,
Kelly
13 January 2009, 4:03 pm
That gorgeous lid was an invitation.
Like a Cartier jewelry box or that little blue and white one.
Luscious boxes and gorgeous ribbons with hints of delight inside are MADE to be enjoyed. Really, Send them all here. I ‘ll show you….LOL
But then I will go into the archives at major museums and handle the master pieces ( wearing white gloves and being very very careful).
I think what you saw was a great experiment ( unintended) of group think and expectations. and that is a very good analogy. Do we unintentionally put obstacles in the path? Something to think about.
Hey Todd- Yes, remove the intimidation factor….she might like the movies.:-)
Janice Cartier’s last blog post…Why Robert Redford Is A Hero
13 January 2009, 5:02 pm
I actually like monkeys but to do the opposite wouldn’t you need to actually put clothes on the gorilla? A gorilla in pants that would be funny. The banana thing, you two are terrible but you know it made me realize I’ve never paid attention to gorilla anatomy, now curious, headed to National Geographic site. Oh, about the chocolates, beauty is meaningless if it doesn’t entice people to open. The closed box would give me time to think and rationalize not eating but an open box aw well, just one bite. I think as marketers if we are marketing “high end” we need to be careful that our beauty is open and invites our customers to touch and experience and not just oooh and ahh and then go by the cheap imitation with the open box.
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13 January 2009, 8:33 pm
@Kelly
You know, (getting back on topic), one might be able to attract even MORE customers with the box of chocolates, by posting a big sign in the front window, advertising to the world:
“EAT ME!!!”
Worth trying, don’t cha think?
13 January 2009, 9:12 pm
Janice,
Exactly. The unintended obstacle.
Karen,
“…if we are marketing ‘high end’ we need to be careful that our beauty is open”—I love that. So true.
Friar,
It worked in Alice in Wonderland, didn’t it?
Seriously, it’s so simple it just might work, even in a high-end atmosphere.
Later,
Kelly
13 January 2009, 9:16 pm
Great analogy Kelly!
So the question becomes, how do you “open yourself up” when all you have is a website and perhaps a portfolio package?
I’ll have to put a bit of thought into that one. Perhaps free downloads, a teaser, a discounted service?
Gives me something to think about… thanks!
~Graham
Graham Strong’s last blog post…Where Web Designers (and Designees) Can Go For Inspiration
13 January 2009, 9:37 pm
Graham – you’ve hit the question I’ve been wondering about all day. how do you “open yourself up”? I think people can tell when a website or blog is written by someone who is open. They ask questions, encourage conversation, stimulate the imagination. What do you think? Is there something more specific that can be done to show “we’re open”?
Todd Smith’s last blog post…Photography Newsletter: Quiet Time Around Home
13 January 2009, 9:57 pm
Graham and Todd,
The open box of chocolates was also:
enticing
teasing
beckoning
sensuous (sight and smell)
available
easy
Yes, marketing is a romance between you and the customer! (I think I see an MCE Valentine’s Day post hiding in here…)
A little more “food” for thought.
Later,
Kelly
13 January 2009, 11:31 pm
You make it perfectly clear now! Alluring yet easy, safe and quick. I can think of lots of ways to do that in every aspect of communication from web design (beautiful yet organized and quick check out) to blogging (useful, thought provoking info with lots of fun and community yet easy to comment and subscribe to comments) to copywriting (storytelling comes to mind – why just describe each product when you can tell a story that weaves itself around it?) and of course to photography (romance comes through in a photo yet it is easy and quick to read: it tells the whole story in an instant).
Thanks, Kelly.
Todd Smith’s last blog post…Photography Newsletter: Quiet Time Around Home
14 January 2009, 8:35 am
@Todd – I think you’re on to something there. Design your website with the aim of attracting new clients/customers (sounds obvious, doesn’t it?). Plaster your phone number and contact info over the site so it’s easy to get a hold of you, make sure that they can navigate easily through your site, use images to tell those thousand words — the right thousand words.
Perfect!
I think too many people design websites that look pretty (e.g. Flash websites) and forget that the point is to get sales. Flash is great for personal sites, but save for a few exceptions, it gets in the way of selling your product or service.
@Kelly – Cheap and easy can certainly be fun, but does it work in every situation? It occurs to me that yes, that cheap candy was just what you were looking for at that moment. But by breakfast the next day, it’s long forgotten.
What about the leather-bound chocolate with the gilded lettering? Won’t that be a more memorable experience, perhaps especially if it lasted a couple of days rather than one torrid afternoon?
Leave the box open a little — just a little — so you still see the classy exterior, but tease them with a hint of what’s yet to come.
Suggest “easy” not with fishnets, but with knowledge that with one coy smile on your part, you can just sit back and be taken care of.
Suggest “available” but not cheap.
Suggest “enticing” but with clear ground rules.
And so on…
I guess if you are selling ebooks, cheap and easy might be the way to go because all you are looking for is the “now”. But if you are building a long-term relationship with your customers/clients, why not start the seduction with the gilded box?
~Graham
Graham Strong’s last blog post…Where Web Designers (and Designees) Can Go For Inspiration
14 January 2009, 9:42 am
Okay between Graham and Friar’s comments I am already, ‘distracted’ this morning….hm….I think a ribbon on a lovely box that is tactile, begs to be loosened…. just like Todd’s photos this morning beg me to touch them.
I think it goes back to form and function. Walk your business, your web site, and yourself through the five senses. Do you invite? Just enough, not too much….for your clients…it’s about them after all. Wanting them to “eat your chocolates” so to speak.
(Kelly, you so have to do a Valentine’s post from this discussion. It’s a killer point you made. And yes, unintentional obstacles. I like this a lot.)
Janice Cartier’s last blog post…Why Robert Redford Is A Hero
14 January 2009, 10:00 am
Kelly great topic, and I had several points to make but I’m so late that everyone beat me to it.
I’m going to go off and find a box of chocolates. Open or closed they wouldn’t stand a chance with me in the room!
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14 January 2009, 2:28 pm
Todd,
LOL. When I read your last comment I thought, oh great. Now that we’ve tied Experience Design up neatly and put a bow on it, what’ll I do with the next ten years of this blog?
Yes, that’s where we go with The Open Box. Right on.
Oh, and storytelling around the “product”—Janice is a master of doing that with her art. Her blog is absolutely a romance between herself/her art/her art-stories and her smitten readers. I should know, I’m one of her most smitten readers.
Graham,
If you haven’t popped by Todd’s blog (while I’m plugging for other folks), you have to. His images will make you forget there might be a thousand words in this language. Earthy, zen, clean, and modern all at once.
“Leave it open just a little”—I was going to say, as an Experience Designer, that’s the part of the Experience that the business has no control over, then I stared a bit harder at those words.
How about a box that’s just as red-leather-gorgeous, but has a slightly-too-tight fitting lid, so you’ll probably leave it open after trying to reclose it?
Or maybe (unless this suggests “cheap” again, hm…) a box with a window insert, so the lovely delicacies can be easily seen?
Of course, in the second solution there’s still no scent or easy access, but it helps the company control the Experience somewhat…
And I agree. Never fishnets.
Janice,
The funny thing is I had a Valentine’s post in the can already. Now I’m looking at it and seeing significant tweaks, just to live up to this awesome conversation. Rewrite!
“Eat your chocolates” sounds dirty when you say it. ROFL.
Wendi,
I hear you. I haven’t been this hungry from a post at MCE since Friar’s Harvey’s discussions. All I could smell then was a great hamburger… now I smell chocolates, with none in sight!
Until later,
Kelly
14 January 2009, 2:33 pm
ROFLOL..sheesh….there’s a painting and a post in there……to be continued…..;))))
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14 January 2009, 2:43 pm
Kelly,
Dang. Now I want a hamburger… never mind chocolate, need flame-broiled beef!
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14 January 2009, 2:53 pm
Janice,
You’ll have to password-protect that post! Oh, no, I’m ROFL again.
Brett,
Meet me in New York.
The best burgers in the whole world.
So good they’ll make you cry, no kidding. Reasonable prices and good drinks too. Plus the place is awesomely full of New York and literary history.
If you ever find yourself in the city, be sure to go. Then, you can die happy. Until then, hold off.
Later,
Kelly
14 January 2009, 2:55 pm
Kelly – Thank you! I subscribed to Janice’s blog this morning. She’d already come over and left a comment on my blog. I love meeting the people you hang out with! Now that we have all concepts tied up in a bow, let’s just sit around talking about gorillas and keep passing the chocolate around!
Todd Smith’s last blog post…What do you think of Engagement Calendars or Daytimers?
14 January 2009, 2:57 pm
Kelly,
I’ll be there in about 6 hours.
-Brett
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14 January 2009, 3:01 pm
I ordered cards too Todd. Love your photos. Brett, bring extra burgers…I think if we mention vision and pointing this qualifies as a business lunch.
Janice Cartier’s last blog post…Why Robert Redford Is A Hero
14 January 2009, 3:12 pm
Janice—On my taxes, it does…
14 January 2009, 3:42 pm
Janice – funny that you should try to buy cards from me… and, right on topic, the order didn’t go through (box closed). There have been innumerable complaints like this with my current shopping cart. I am in the process of changing to a new cart (check out http://www.interspire.com/shoppingcart/ for an awesome, user-friendly cart). For a sneak peek of my new site on my testing server go here: http://d1923.u37.solidinternet.com/. I think a one-step check-out is a must (hint, open lid) and I can’t wait till my new site is finished.
BTW, I’d be interested in what you think of my first product “story.” There’s only one product on the testing site now (ladybug card). Does the description accomplish what we’re talking about here?
Todd Smith’s last blog post…What do you think of Engagement Calendars or Daytimers?
14 January 2009, 4:01 pm
Todd- I will check it out. Sorry to hear my card order did not go through. I did not receive an email receipt for the order so I was wondering…. How ironic? Apropo? I’ll be right there when the new cart is ready. Bon Voyage.
Janice Cartier’s last blog post…Why Robert Redford Is A Hero
14 January 2009, 5:07 pm
Wow, how’s a guy supposed to keep up…?!?
Here’s a quick shot at it:
@Kelly, yes, love the window box and the too-tight lid. (We’re still talking about chocolate here… right?) Hmm, I think I’ve overstretched your metaphor — I’m so confused! lol
BTW, thanks for the referral — was planning to head Todd’s way at some point as well.
@Janice — yes, I thought of the ribbon too, though you make it sound so much better than I could have. I think that after this whole conversation, I’ll never be able to look at a box of chocolates the same way again!
~Graham
Graham Strong’s last blog post…Where Web Designers (and Designees) Can Go For Inspiration
14 January 2009, 5:16 pm
Graham,
Yep. The next box of chocolates I see is going to be more psychology/ Experience experiment than goodies.
And it’s going to remind me of romance (ahem!) in ways candy usually doesn’t, LOL.
Later,
Kelly
14 January 2009, 6:20 pm
Why thank you Graham. We’ll all have a collective perspective on just what a box of chocolates can be. Thanks Kelly.
Janice Cartier’s last blog post…Why Robert Redford Is A Hero
14 January 2009, 9:42 pm
At your service. Maybe next time I’ll wreck a good porterhouse steak, so all we can think of is…
I’d better save that for next time.