Are You Struggling to Make the Sale?
Take a cue from the birds and the bees—stop working so hard and use what nature gave you!
Nobody wants to be hit on, but everybody wants to be in love.
How’s that?
I said, nobody wants to be sold to, but everybody loves to buy.
So stop running your business like you’re a pickup artist. It ain’t that artistic. Use these three steps to build relationships that lead to what nature intended—fabulous, ongoing interludes between you and your customers, who love you wildly.
First Step: Playing the Field
… Or if you insist, Lead Gathering.
You know you’ve got to market to make it, and you desperately want to shorten that cycle and get some sales in the sack. Take a cue from the birds, the bees, and The Open Box:
Put it on display
Entice, tease, beckon
Stir the senses
Be available
Be easy
Whatever you do, don’t be cheap!
Second Step: Nookie
… Sold!
Do I have to say it? You overpromised when you were dating. Tonight’s the Night, babe.
It’s all about the other person’s needs—give him what he wants, and he’ll find a dozen ways to pay you back
Talk about the future. It only feels funny for a minute, and then it’s the most natural thing in the world
Be sincere, or go home
Follow up—surprise him all over again
Third Step: Keeping the Fire Alive
… Ahh, the honeymoon. You love the customer, she raves about you… times are great. And without the real work, all-too-brief.
Why, oh why is it the post-sale effort that’s most often neglected? Do you really want to start dating every prospect in town again when it’s so much easier… cheaper… and, um… more convenient, to hold on to the good thing you’ve got?
Continue servicing with the same energy
Take it to the next level
Show off your flexibility/ versatility
Spice things up periodically
Keep in touch constantly
The birds and the bees don’t struggle. They don’t read books on how to do it. Don’t get me wrong, I like books—but sometimes you just have to remember these are people you’re trying to entice, and you’re a person, and well…
You can do this. Act naturally. Romancing the customer shouldn’t be such a chore.
Tip of the Week:
Give your honey a quick… kiss this morning and get to work keeping your customers’ fires burning. And yes, consider this your early Valentine’s Day present, my beloved Maximum Customer Experience readers, as I’ll be off tomorrow being wildly romantic. I wish you smiles.
Today, let’s talk about making sales sizzle: How can a company capture your heart so completely, it’s almost better than nookie?
Can you do that in your own company?
Grow and be well,
Kelly Erickson













13 February 2009, 10:14 am
I don’t know what just happened, but after reading this post, I feel I need to smoke a cigarette or something.
Friar’s last blog post…Six Things about Valentine’s Day that Suck
13 February 2009, 10:18 am
*big wink*
13 February 2009, 1:57 pm
Was it good for you?
Eyeteaguy
P.S. I Twittered you site like you asked. You now have 2 more followers. Hence the old saying. If you want something….ask for it.
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13 February 2009, 2:18 pm
Francis,
Hello! So glad to see you here!
And that old saying fits right in with nookie. (Friar might need another cig, though.)
I ask for it every time, but you’d be surprised how many people never read that line at all. Thanks for the Tweet!
Regards,
Kelly
13 February 2009, 2:35 pm
I’ll have whatever you’re having….way to go. You want tweets darling? On their way.
All she said up there, and more. Honestly, if you want to have a thriving business, it’s all about relationships.
Janice Cartier’s last blog post…The Dragon Room, Naked Models, And Mad Magazine
13 February 2009, 2:39 pm
Janice,
This post was a perfect excuse to dust off my double-entendre-skills…
… which never get very dusty.
Thanks for the Tweet! Must go check out your models now. Oooh.
Later,
Kelly
13 February 2009, 3:04 pm
Sounds like good ol’ Georgie Orgy was hanging out here!
*Baa baaaaa…*
Thanks for the B-Day wishes. Hot post (with great info)!
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13 February 2009, 7:26 pm
@Karen JL
Georgie Orgy…Heheh. I almost forgot about him.
Last I heard, he’s doin’ fine.
Friar’s last blog post…Six Things about Valentine’s Day that Suck
13 February 2009, 7:34 pm
Tee hee. Thanks for the giggle, guys!
16 February 2009, 1:27 pm
Ooh, I missed this one last week, as I was traveling. You’re even more romantic than I thought!
Great post and, yeah, that’s what I want to do… it takes a lot of work, and results are not instant, but WAY more fulfilling.
Todd Smith’s last blog post…When good lighting isn’t good enough…
16 February 2009, 5:20 pm
Todd,
Lots of work, not instant results, way more fulfilling…
No, you may not have my crown of double-entendre. I gave it to Janice on Friday.
Yeah. Works for business, too. It really does.
Later,
Kelly