And He Doesn’t Even Call It “Networking”
Charlie owns a restaurant.
Charlie’s new restaurant opened two months ago, in the office complex where a friend works north of Wilmington, Delaware. I’d previously declared the site bad restaurant magic, because in two years my friend has watched three cafés tank there. If you’ve ever worked in the restaurant business, you may know that belief in restaurant voodoo is strong—many professionals won’t move in to a location that’s had more than one or two failures in it. It’s not voodoo, of course, it’s a combination of location, which may be bad to begin with, and the lasting image in potential customers’ minds of the horrors of past restaurants that were located there.
That’s a discussion for another day.
I first heard about Charlie on his opening day, when he came by personally to introduce himself to my friend, and hand out a menu from his new place just hours before he was scheduled to open. A restaurateur who is so confident that he can walk away for an hour on opening day is my kind of guy. The story stuck with me.
I’d nearly forgotten about Charlie when he came by my friend’s office with a fresh menu, to say hello and let them know it was his one-month anniversary. Naturally, friend reported this event to me, because he saw there was a story in it. Now they look forward to chatting with Charlie.
Has Charlie been reading the Maximum Customer Experience Blog?
How Charlie gets customers jazzed
1. He visits frequently enough but not too often: Right about when they might have forgotten him otherwise
2. He comes by with a relevant, positive, non-pushy message: “Brought you a new menu, just a reminder that it’s our one-month anniversary”
3. He comes at the perfect time to capture hungry office workers: After they’ve settled in, but well before lunch so they have time to think about trying out Charlie’s (since he’s such a nice guy and all)
What’s the ROI of all this great effort?
Have you eaten at Charlie’s? I ask. Um, no, he says sheepishly. I try to go home for lunch most of the time.
But…
Yes?
Nearly everyone I work with, and almost every person I’ve told about meeting Charlie (and I’ve told quite a few), has. I’ve heard back from them. Trust me, the word-of-mouth has been way better than if I’d wandered over for a turkey sandwich myself, he tells me.
So Charlie—I’m pulling for you, man. You’re doing a lot of things right. And the funny thing is, now that I’m writing about it, I can feel good magic working on me. I’m gonna have to drag my friend out of his home-for-lunch routine and we’ll both go try it out.
We can learn a lot from Charlie.
Does reaching out like Charlie sound like a lot of work, or a way to be friendly and see beyond your own front door? How could you benefit from extending your reach so naturally?
Grow and be well,
Kelly Erickson













6 March 2009, 7:37 am
This is a great story – and yes, this could be applied to any business I think.
I had a look at Charlie’s web site – he will succeed, I can tell just by looking at it. I will stop in there too, if I’m in the area – I’ll make a point of it.
Now *that’s* word of mouth, if a crazy guy from Canada puts you on the list…
6 March 2009, 8:01 am
Brett,
If you are ever 12? 15? hours out of your way, Charlie will be delighted to see you.
AND SO WILL I !!!
Hehe, I’ve always suspected we’d meet in the middle some day. I have to get you and Friar over to my favorite dive in Vermont and find out if they serve breakfast past noon so Friar’ll have someone new to rant about.
Anyway… you know what I love about this story? Things like this are written in every book on marketing and startups. I’ve written about getting out on foot umpteen times here myself.
And nobody does it. All wasted ink (pixels). So this guy does it, does it right, and honestly, I’m astonished and delighted. And so was the guy who told me about it, and so are his friends. It’s the simplest, most “cost-effective” tactic, and he’s already becoming memorable for it. (Seven touches, goes the old saying—five more to go.)
If he keeps it up every month (and I really hope he does), he’ll be the only guy to make a go of the location and nobody will quite know why.
We’ll know why. God is in the details. Even stuff that has nothing to do with food.
Regards,
Kelly
6 March 2009, 8:10 am
Kelly,
Of course you know the main reason for the trip is to stop in and visit you
I’m hoping this summer we’ll do a “Brett & Friar” road trip and meet in the middle as you say. I’m itching to get down to Vermont.
I think that Charlie will do it. He somewhat reminds me of the owner of a cafe we visited in New Zealand in 2007. I asked the man how he made the flat whites, and he said, “come on around behind the espresso machine and I’ll show you”. He even said, “if your digital camera does video, why don’t you record it?”
We still have that little movie as a memory of our trip. We went to that cafe every single day that we were in Auckland, even on the very last day, and I said to the man, “we’ll be back – see you soon”.
When we go back, I’ll go and visit. It is still there, almost two years later, running strong (I’ve been checking up via the internet).
6 March 2009, 8:24 am
Brett,
Coming all the way down here would be nuts, well, unless you like crazy heat and American history (I usually take folks’ minds off the crazy heat with a tour of Old City Philadelphia, but I’d guess that being Canadian, that tour would hold a lot less thrall, LOL.)
Yeah, you guys get some fishing/hiking trip together, don’t let Friar’s knee get busted again, and we’ll do coffee and wonderful/horrible food over at Perry’s in Poultney, VT. (Or whatever… for some reason I have that image in my head.)
Look! Off-topic before 9am? Is this a new record?
Probably not.
You should post the vid on 6 Weeks! That sounds like the makings of a great post on loyalty and promises and goals. Plus now I’m completely curious.
Later,
Kelly
6 March 2009, 8:33 am
Kelly,
Well, I do like American history and when it’s cold up here, the heat sounds appealing…
Hey, we’re not really off-topic, in my mind – we’re just doing what Charlie does, talking in a friendly way about business maybe?
Hmm. That might be a good idea to post that video, I’ll learn something new and it will be fun.
I’m going to try some new things at 6 Weeks soon. Giving away something for free, in a sense – I think it will be very interesting.
6 March 2009, 8:45 am
Hmm, I just checked it out — Brett, you’re closer to Kelly than you are to me (assuming you’re in Ottawa?)
Ottawa – Wilmington, DE: 751km (467 mi)
Ottawa – Thunder Bay: 1457km (905 miles)
That’s right. Almost twice as far.
Ontario is just big.
(But it’s worth the drive to Acton…)
~Graham
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6 March 2009, 9:19 am
@Graham,
Exactly! People sometimes forget how big Canada really is. I had an email conversation with a fellow down in Kelly’s neck of the woods about taking my car for some custom mods, and he said, “isn’t that a little far away?”
Well, seeing as the next closest shop was in Toronto and it was only about another 200 km to the one in the US – that would give better service! – I was willing to make the drive. Plus I’d see something *new*.
Oh yeah, and it is always worth the drive to Acton…)
6 March 2009, 9:24 am
Gor, that’s big.
My state is 13 miles wide, folks.
The longer I live here, the more skewed my view of the universe becomes.
Must go locate Thunder Bay on a map so I can understand this better…
(See? Totally off-topic. Oops!)
6 March 2009, 11:27 am
I find it interesting that Brett will drive 15 hours to get a sandwich and hang out with a lady he “met online” but won’t drive 6 hours to see his friend.
Is it because I quit drinking?
And how come I’m not invited on youir camping trip with Friar? I promise I won’t pick on him… too much.
Eyeteaguy
How is that for off topic. I didn’t even discuss your post.
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6 March 2009, 11:43 am
Francis,
When you put it that way… I’m sure Brett’s wife finds it interesting, too. LOL.
I think he should wait until I’ve tried the sandwich.
As far as I’m concerned, bring all of Canada, I’ll meet you halfway. I’m dying to meet everybody, and I think Vermont can hold y’all safely while I’m over on the New York side of the border… in case one of you turns out to be a talking mule, or something.
I just want you to know that this was one of those posts where I felt like I rocked it out. Very proud last night as I hit “publish.” Happy dance and everything.
Discussing fishing trips & meetups now. Nice, but still… Bummer.
One thing I’ve learned in blogging for a year and a half, is that you never know when you’ve rocked it out. The readers decide that.
Later,
Kelly
6 March 2009, 11:54 am
I like Charlie. In fact, I wish I could pop in for one of his sammiches. Cool that he so gets it. Happy Charlie dance with you.
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6 March 2009, 11:57 am
Your Tim Robbins post was awesome. Maybe its experience specific? I don’t have a storey about sandwiches or restaurants.
I’ll bring my kids with me, they keep me honest and I won’t swear as much. I’d like to make a good first impression before totally screwing it up when I revert to being honest.
Eyeteaguy
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6 March 2009, 12:13 pm
Janice,
Thanks. Yeah—I can hardly wait to go now. Too much talking about it, not enough action on my part!
Francis,
(Tom Robbins. The wild and crazy author. Not Tim, the wild and crazy actor. Hehe.)
I wasn’t picking on you at all, y’know, just saying I never know what’ll ignite the fires.
Plus, I figured you left such awesome, thoughtful comments Wednesday you were all awesome’d out.
Later,
Kelly
6 March 2009, 12:55 pm
Sorry, typo. Although Tim has some interesting things to say too.
And I know you weren’t picking on me. Even though I deserve it sometimes.
I never run out of awesomeness. I just have to hold back some days or else people would would be blinded by my glow.
Heh, heh, heh. Ain’t I a stinker.
Eyeteaguy
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6 March 2009, 1:34 pm
I always tried to read Tom Robbins — I’ve read about 5 of his books, but I don’t think I’ve ever finished one. Love his style, love his wacky stories (a talking soup can? i’m all over it…) but there is something about the combination that just drives me nuts.
Incidentally, The Tragically Hip got the name for their Police-Picnic-like summer concert tours from his book, Another Roadside Attraction.
BTW, by the time you get to Thunder Bay, you only have six hours to drive until you get to the Manitoba border. Then it’s just 18 short hours after that to Calgary, and about 16 more to Vancouver. Piece o’ cake.
(Yes, there’s lots more of useless trivia where that came from. Stay tuned.)
~Graham
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6 March 2009, 2:01 pm
LOL to both of you.
And I did check a map so I could show off my ignorance—who the heck put Ontario all the way over there by Minnesota? Doggoneit, that’s big. I thought, when I used to live in Iowa and head over to Toronto via the crossing at Detroit (and then driveanddriveanddrive in the pitch dark on the ultra-boring QEW), that I was at the edge of ONT. Now I see I was nowhere near it. Whoa.
But hey, when I drive north 6 1/2 hours to see my family, I say the same thing. Piece o’ cake.
(& I adore Tom Robbins. I think I’ve read everything he’s ever written. Considering that I hardly ever read fiction, that’s saying a lot.)
Later,
Kelly
6 March 2009, 2:04 pm
@Eyeteaguy,
I’m coming to visit you once the snow leaves, you bugger
By then you’ll be drinking again anyway.
I was actually going to come last weekend but sick kids plus the end of fiscal year push at work kiboshed that one…
And of course you are coming with us – geez, do I have to spell everything out?
^ ^
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^
o
6 March 2009, 2:09 pm
@Kelly – From Iowa, take the I35 North through the Twin Cities, on to Duluth, up to the Pigeon River border, and then just head north for a half hour and boom, you’re there in Thunder Bay.
Piece o’ cake.
Unless your a can o’ beans.
~Graham
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6 March 2009, 5:09 pm
@Kelly
Hey, I didn’t realize Delaware was THAT close. (heck…it’s closer than Wawa…which was my starting-off point for my fishing trip).
Vermont..huh. That’s CLOSE. I might even be going within the next month with a friend, to try to catch the tail end of the ski season.
I’ve driven across the country a few times. From Ottawa, you can easily make it to Calgary in 4 days. But two of those days is driving through STUPID ONTARIO.
Even when you get to Thunder Bay…it’s still a good 5-6 hours to the Manitoba border.
PS. What was this post about, again?
6 March 2009, 5:13 pm
@Graham and Kelly
My favorite Tom Robbins quote:
“It has been reported that Tanuki fell from the sky using his scrotum as a parachute.”
(Hey…HE wrote that…NOT me!)
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6 March 2009, 5:41 pm
@Friar,
Why, this post was about 20-foot tall inflatable gorillas with big bananas eating McLobster Sandwiches of course!
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6 March 2009, 5:54 pm
@Brett
You know what? I LIKE McLobsters!!
All things being equal, of course I’d rather have a REAL lobster dinner. Nothign compares to that (as kids, my folks would by the critters fresh off the wharf directly from the fishermen and we’d cook them right away).
But the McLobster Sammitch is still a novelty…and it’s still better than NO lobster at all.
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6 March 2009, 6:02 pm
Awww…dammit.
Now I have a craving for a lobster sammitch (Not necessarily a McLobster, though).
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6 March 2009, 6:05 pm
Not only that, the McLobster Sammitch is one of the few things where they haven’t transmogrified the meat. They’re pretty good (I’ve compared it with a fresh one at a road-side stand and they were close).
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6 March 2009, 6:07 pm
@Brett
You’re right…unlike other McD products. Like “McRib”. I like the way theY shape the processed meat into the shape of a spare-ribs.
AS IFFFFF…it actually came directly off the pig! (hAHAHHA!)
Funny, how Lobster was considered “garbage fish” less than 100 years ago. They’d bury them in the gardens for fertilizer.
It’s like eating a big underwater BUG…when you think of it.
Still…it tastes so damned GOOD.
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6 March 2009, 6:09 pm
@Brett
How about the dude who sells lobsters and scallops in Splat Creek..from the VAN by the traffic light.
I’m sure THAT lobster is high-quality, eh?
(..HOW many hundreds of miles are we away from the ocean here?)
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6 March 2009, 6:12 pm
@Friar,
That’s why if I went on Survivor, I’d eat the bugs. Hey, we eat *cows* and *pigs* – why not a bug? A bug would be cleaner.
I’m not sure about the Splat Creek lobster guy. I think it’s a front. I think there’s no lobsters in there at all. I think the ice chest is like the trunk of the Malibu in Repo Man.
Whatever you do, don’t open it.
A few years ago the Cheezy Mart got some lobster in – everyone was so excited about it.
Well, it was terrible. No way did it compare to eating it in Eastern Canada.
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6 March 2009, 6:18 pm
@Friar – I bet nobody asked him what colour his parachute was…
Ooh, that’s gotta hurt.
As for McLobsters… I almost had one in Boston when I was there last (X number of decades ago…) But we got to a pub — Happy Hour was a whole lobster for $4.
So I took that instead.
Rule #1,874 from Rules for Better Living: Never buy Rolex watches or lobsters from the back of a van.
~Graham
~Graham
6 March 2009, 6:21 pm
@Brett
I saw those Cheezi-Mart lobsters…..pathetic small little things. And they weren’t cheap.
I’d rather drive to the Big City (45 minutes away) and get something slightly bigger than a craw-dad.
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6 March 2009, 6:22 pm
@Graham
Wouldn’t surprise me if the van guy was selling Rolexes too. (and maybe even transplant organs).
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9 March 2009, 2:46 am
Given the virtual nature of my business, I’m not sure how I would do something like Charlie does. I already blog comment and Tweet (just can’t get into Stumbling and Digging no matter how much I try – just not my thing). I connect with my readers and I reach out to include them in the blog.
A lot of that previously didn’t feel natural but now totally does. I wonder what the equivalent of the menu-handing-out would be online…
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11 March 2009, 5:56 am
Friar,
Your province is so huge Graham just made Delaware sound close. I think that’s hysterical.
I was in New York and Vermont this weekend, and the skiiers were having a ball. Don’t know how long it’s gonna last, though… they only got one good snow while I was up there.
Alex,
Some folks collect real addresses and send real notes/ newsletters/ what-have-you through the mail… I’ve only gotten snail mail from someone I knew virtually twice, but I admit I was *very* impressed by it. For someone I might never meet, it is much more personal than any pixels on a page can be.
Though with the truly international nature of your business, that might be a difficult trick.
I’ll tell you what wows me and feels personal in the virtual world. Real email. Really addressed to and talking to me. Granted you can’t cover a couple of hundred businesses in a morning if you’re really writing to just one person, but writing to five or six a week might be a thought…
Hmm. Interesting question. Now I’ll be mulling it over all day.
Later,
Kelly
12 March 2009, 1:04 am
@Kelly
When I launched my newsletter, I went through my email contacts and emailed 15 people a day about it, adding some sort of personal note. It worked really well because even before the first issue went out, I already had as many people signed up as I’d had at the end of my previous organizing newsletter.
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12 March 2009, 5:47 am
You mean that wasn’t just to me, because you love me so much and wanted me to read your newsletter?
Hehehe. Good for you. I hoped it was a personal email campaign. I’m known to do that myself.
Later…