Staying Above the Fray, Part 1
Confidence is catching
If you want to end your worries about “the competition,” stop worrying about the competition.
When you start a game of tit-for-tat with the competition it’s a sure signal that you’ve forgotten why you are unique.
You have no competition if you remember that and stay confident in it.
If you forget your uniqueness, how can you expect your staff to rave about you with all their hearts?
If you forget, how can you expect your clients to feel invested in you, to want to be a part of your success?
How can you expect your Ideal Customer to remember that you alone provide the Ideal Solution to their problem if you’ve forgotten it yourself?
I’ll tell you a secret to being your own best salesman (or -woman). I first heard it in pick-up basketball games in Worcester, Massachusetts long ago, where every great player was selling, fully convinced there was no competition at all:
It ain’t bragging if it’s so.
When you know what’s so great about you, you’ll be able to pass that knowledge on through the company and beam it out to your customers and prospects.
There’s nobody else like you, no other company like yours. Figure out why that IS true. And swagger like you mean it.
Having a hard time with this one? Try bragging about your favorite restaurant. Is it your favorite because there’s no other food in the region? Or because there’s no other place that… ???
There’s nobody else like your fave not because there is no place else to eat, but because in some other way, they have no competition. So as you get ready to swagger, your job is to figure out: Why does your own company have no competition?
Grow and be well,
Kelly Erickson












16 June 2009, 5:45 am
I have no competition because I *know* I’m the only Someday Mentor out there. Others might do similar things, but I’m the only person on the ‘net that does email-based coaching to give people that final push they need to finally get rid of the Somedays in their lives.
Alex Fayle | Someday Syndrome’s last blog post…The Fear Weed in the Garden of Success
16 June 2009, 7:12 am
Alex,
I totally agree. To me, your services are so memorable and unique (and necessary!) that Someday has become a proper noun.
And that’s a very fine swagger. Well-deserved!
Regards,
Kelly
16 June 2009, 9:33 am
Swagger, huh?
Maybe… I should get a nice leather holster for my brush. Hm… Maybe Louboutin could make up a really cool one for me.
Yep. That would be VAH-ry nice
Janice Cartier’s last blog post…Elegant Enigma
16 June 2009, 11:18 am
All the businessess in the town where I live have no competition, because we’re surrounded by miles of bush.
Everything is “the best”…by DEFAULT.
Of course, the local yokels don’t see it that way. They think everything’s great, and outsiders like me who complain are scorned.
Meh. Small-Town Ontario. Whattya gonna do?
16 June 2009, 12:26 pm
Heh. One of my favorite songs is ‘Cocky’ by Kid Rock.
To quote: “They say I’m cocky, and I say, ‘What? It ain’t braggin’ [radio edit] if you back it up.’”
It’s the most arrogant, self-confident statement I’ve ever heard. Love it. Live it. Yessir.
(Alright, in a humble kind of way. Maybe. A little. Sometimes. And minus the cursing. In public, at least…)
James Chartrand – Men with Pens’s last blog post…Drive-by-Shooting Special: Start Being Your Best
16 June 2009, 1:55 pm
Janice,
Have you seen Tei’s picture on Men With Pens? You could do a pic like that at the blog, once you get your brush-holster made… vah-ry nice indeed!
Friar,
How ’bout the two diners? Who gets your business?
Anyway, for Friar… no competition because… nobody can skewer small-town thinking with a poison pen and a twinkle in his eye like you can, eh?
James,
Maybe Kid Rock was at those summer b-ball games, lol. Thinking back, he would have blended in pretty well.
Sorry to folks who are fond of it, but humility is overrated. A little bit of cocky always draws folks in, in personal and business spheres. Good to have!
Until later,
Kelly