My Pleasure
A local restaurant where I sometimes have lunch is under new ownership.
As far as I know there was nothing wrong with the old ownership, so hopefully this is just a normal, time-to-move-on being.
(A nice thought, that normal things do happen, even in abnormal economies.)
The menu hasn’t changed, but food quality has gone up. That surprised me—food quality was already very good for a quickservice restaurant.
The place was always clean, but it might be a bit cleaner now. In fact, nice, but incremental changes hardly anyone would notice were instantly everywhere, including in the smiling face of the ever present new owner. Together they do make a big difference to the Customer Experience.
The thing I’ve noticed most is a fascinating detail that I have no doubt was chosen with extreme care; one which probably required quite a bit of retraining in order to convince employees who stayed on (I’ve seen little turnover in the three or four months since the change) to implement it consistently. Yet like the cleaner floors and better food, it appeared instantly when the new owner took over and has remained almost flawlessly in place.
“My pleasure.”
At first I thought I was imagining it, or that it was a quirk of just one employee. But no, this tiny phrase is a deliberate decision, the new owner’s signature, stamped on every interaction:
May I have another Diet Coke?
“My pleasure.”
Thanks.
“My pleasure.”
It’s a little wearing, to be honest. The grand “My pleasure” every time a simple “Yes” or “Sure” or “You’re welcome” would do.
For a while I couldn’t stand it, but it’s kinda tough to complain about a surplus of manners while the rest of the world goes to hell in a handbasket completely devoid of manners, so I continue to smile and thank each person again for their grace.
How much?
“$16.56.”
Here’s my card.
“My pleasure.”
Thanks.
“My pleasure.”
Thanks very much.
“My…
Oh, somebody stop me from thanking them!
The new owner’s stamp on the fine customer service at his restaurant. It’s as distinctive as if he’d re-covered the chair—and to be honest, twice as memorable.
But this post isn’t about “My pleasure.”
In the past few weeks I’ve been served twice by one employee whose face has definitely been around for quite a while. She’s nice. She gets us our food. And this post is about her.
Because she says, “You’re welcome.” While the new owner’s signature phrase echoes from every other transaction in the store, she even says, “Sure.”
When the new owner’s got his sea legs and he’s ready to make changes, she has got to go.
Maximum Customer Experience will always require maximum staff buy-in. This guy must be a heck of a motivator because his staff is 99 3/4% behind him.
The devil is in the details. And even more, in the details of those details!
That 1/4% that I can see as an outsider may be a sign of other issues with this employee, or it may not. What’s for certain, is that 1/4% is the tiny crack in his strategy through which an army of new staff who won’t respect his policies can walk, over time.
Sometimes a hundred performance measures miss what’s staring your customers in the face. To hang on to those incremental changes that have brightened a lot of lunches, Ms. “You’re welcome” must be fired.
Sometimes, marching to the beat of a different drummer is really a middle finger to the rules in disguise.
Grow and be well,
Kelly Erickson












21 July 2009, 8:16 am
I know what you’re saying, and yes, consistency is needed for that Maximum Customer Experience.
It does sound to me, though, that Mr. My Pleasure went to the same school of management as the new regime did here at The Factory.
The opposite of consistency is flair, or personality, perhaps.
I would stop eating at a place like that, because it would be apparent to me that the staff are just going through the motions. They don’t really give a rat’s bum about “my pleasure”, they’re just doing it to keep a job. It is possible to tell the difference between someone who really does want to make me happy vs. someone who’s just keeping the boss happy.
In any case, Ms. “You’re welcome” probably does need to move on, as she shows a spark of independent thought, and a termination may wake her from her current slumber.
Where I work, at some point a couple of years ago, it became “unacceptable” to respond to a question with the word “yes” in a meeting.
(Who the heck says “unacceptable” anyway, without laughing?)
The “acceptable” response became “that is correct”.
If anything, since everything became “correct”, the corporate droids have run things even further off the rails.
My prediction? In five years, they’ll have their army of “that is correct” zombies and anyone with a semblance of intelligence (which is sort of critical for an R&D company) will have long since moved on… or have been fired for refusing to bend.
21 July 2009, 8:45 am
Brett,
I see what you mean. As I said, for a while, I couldn’t stand it.
But it’s said with a genuine smile, it’s just their thing, like “Welcome to Burger King how may I help you” or any other catchphrase. There’s been little turnover (always a sure sign of folks who’re unhappy with the changes), and if I had to measure it, there’s a lot more joy in the staff now.
So all in all I’d have to disagree that they’re going through the motions. The one who might be, isn’t bothering.
Flair, they definitely have, and it appears, someone who genuinely cares about displaying it at the top. That sets them apart in a sea of chain-food sameness here in semi-urban-land.
Sure, it can be taken to extremes, but in this case, it’s being done well and for a good purpose. Differentiation is hard to come by in his field, y’know?
Regards,
Kelly
21 July 2009, 8:46 am
P.S. LOL—I say “unacceptable” without laughing. To The Kid when things are going very, very wrong.
21 July 2009, 9:22 am
Kelly,
Well there you go – if you can tell that they are genuinely happy, and even happier now, then Mr. My Pleasure does have something. Like I said you can tell, and of course, being a regular there, you can tell.
In that case then, the one who won’t say the magic words has been on the way out anyway.
21 July 2009, 11:34 am
Very insightful! Loved your comment about how the non-my-pleasure individual had to go; that was unexpected. But I can certainly see how having the whole environment centered upon “my pleasure” can make a positive impression on folks….
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21 July 2009, 12:15 pm
Wow Kelly, you’re really taking this honourary Canadian thing seriously!
“Thank you” angst… That’s the stuff of many CBC Radio One weekend specials!
(Can snogging in a canoe be far behind?)
~Graham
21 July 2009, 12:30 pm
hmmm… I can see your point about the employee that isn’t on board with the new owner’s direction. To be honest, though, I would find the “my pleasure” thing a bit annoying after a while. If they say “my pleasure” after everything, it loses its meaning. I would have the employees keep the attitude, but vary up the sayings: “my pleasure,” “you’re very welcome,” “it’s so good to see you,” “absolutely,” “I would love to,” “that’s a great idea,” etc. The owner could brainstorm with everyone for all the ways to say “my pleasure” without being repetitive. When the employees catch the spirit of the exercise, it will come through more clearly as something genuine… and will make the restaurant shine like a brilliant star.
21 July 2009, 2:17 pm
…reminds me of the cashiers who always ask you “How are you”, every time you come up to buy something.
You know damned well they dont give a sh*t about how you are.
The game is they say “How are you”, you’re supposed to say “Fine”. Now that you’re gotten these preliminaries out of the way, you’re free to move on with the money transaction and get on with your life.
But, me being a persnickety Friar, I like to stir things up. When people ask me “How are you?”, I typically answer:
a) “HUNGRY!”
b) “Tired.”
c) “Glad to be the hell out of the office!”
d) “Average”
e) “Seven and a half, out of ten.”
It always throws them for a loop. And gives a Control-Alt-Delete to the stupid knee-jerk standards we always follow.
21 July 2009, 2:49 pm
Brett,
“…the one who won’t say the magic words has been on the way out anyway.”
I suspect that’s true. The owner will probably wake up one day to a short shift and wish he’d seen it coming!
Barbara,
I believe it does create a positive impression (and maybe moreso if you aren’t a semi-regular… who gets tired of things other folks wouldn’t even spot, I’m sure).
Graham,
Though I’m completely against water travel (seasick just thinking about it), I’ll take the snogging any ol’ way.
Does that make me Canadian? ROFL.
Todd,
I can definitely see that point, but it does lessen the distinction (maybe even eliminate it) if it’s seven catchphrases. Not that I’m against general politeness—it would be great if their being polite was so normal that it had never caught my attention in the first place!
Don’t wake me, I’m dreaming…
Friar,
See previous thoughts, including that these folks are genuinely smiling and fine fakers of interest, or else perhaps like their jobs…
It’s an interesting idea, that they don’t give a sh*t—can’t they mean it, at least as much as they meant “You’re welcome” up until March? It’s not as if they were silent when a customer said Thank you before. It’s just that now, for this one part of our interaction, they have a standard answer, that the owner seems to hope will help “brand” his store.
I do like to think that folks who choose service jobs, as opposed to janitorial work, construction jobs, kitchen work, etc., do so because they at least think they’ll interact well with people. Of course it’s not always true, but I like to think that people with customer-facing jobs (often) try to give a sh*t.
I never know what will stir the pot around here, but evidently “My pleasure” is it!
(BTW I do the same when folks ask “How are you.” Not my life story, of course, but I figure if I answer the question a bit truthfully at least it’ll give them something to think about while they continue their work, ho ho!)
Until later,
Kelly
21 July 2009, 5:02 pm
@Kelly
There’s a cranky talk show host in Ottawa called Lowell Green. (He’s one of my heroes, though I rarely get to listen to him anymore). Whenever people phone in and start off with “Hi Lowell, how are you?”, he barks back “NOT WORTH A DAMN!!!” and presses people to move on to the topic. Every show, he managed to catch a couple of callers like that.
Another one of my pet peeves is at conferences, when they speak “Formal-Talk” at the podium, and they receive “Great Pleasure”.
Like:
“It gives me GREAT PLEASURE to introduce last years president of the Northwestern Ply-wood Paperboard Association”.
OMG…ZZZZZZzzzzz. Next.
To me, great pleasure would be eating a fantastic meal, skiing down powder snow, having awesome sex, or catching a big fish.
NOT introducing some ultra-boson at a stuffed-shirt Convention.
Great PLEASURE?
Gramps…you need to get out more.
21 July 2009, 5:09 pm
Friar,
& not necessarily in that order.
^^
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21 July 2009, 5:29 pm
@Kelly — when done right, you won’t even know you’re on water… http://thinkexist.com/quotes/pierre_burton/
@Friar — hey, that was my Dad! He gave up the presidency to take over the forestry division at Bowater.
(Okay, I made that up. But how funny would that be! Reminds me of this story: http://www.tsn.ca/columnists/bob_mckenzie/?id=222867)
~Graham
21 July 2009, 9:32 pm
Graham,
That’s good, because normally I get seasick reading Friar’s posts about being in a boat. LOL.
Nice quote (and I love the “only in Canada moment”—how can that be in such a vast country?). Off to find out who the heck this Burton guy is now.
Later,
Kelly
21 July 2009, 10:38 pm
@Kelly
Who’s PIERRE BERTON?
OMG!!! How can you NOT know?
Wow…he’s like…well, a Canadian Celebrity. Who wrote books and stuff. He wore a bowtie and said smart things. And was on the CBC…and um…was on Front Page Challenge.
Which, back in it’s time, was, by default, one of the BEST game shows on CBC.
WOW…it still amazes me. That’s like someone not knowing who Bruno Gerussi was.
Friar’s last blog post…What summer means to me.
22 July 2009, 7:53 am
(I am not looking up Bruno Gerussi, because I fear a Friar red herring.)
Please also note, though I quickly discovered the quote is wrong, his name is spelled “Burton” at thinkexist. I passed a lovely half-hour in learning about him. How would I know? He wrote nothing about this country, nothing that was universal enough to be sold here, and was never on the telly here. I’ve visited a lot, but I don’t watch t.v. when I’m in foreign countries, and it’s not as if one’s concierge says “go get a book by Mr. Berton” on one’s way to shop on Queen Street, eh?
I see my honourary Canadian citizenship has just been revoked.
Wait! I do know every Canadian who’s ever crossed the border for film, t.v., or music, (though I’m sorry, I can’t keep up with Canadian hockey players, there are too many), and I know every show that’s ever crossed the border—You can’t make me sing Red Green’s theme, thankfully there isn’t one, but I’ll sing Caillou for you, Friar! With a little Céline for an encore?
I shall earn my way back into my loyal Canadian readers’ good graces. Right after I try to remember what the topic of this post was…
22 July 2009, 8:17 am
@Kelly – What, are we off topic…?
Gerussi is real — the star of “The Beachcombers”, don’t ya know? A laughable comedy (not in a good way) but somehow a Canadian touchstone.
BTW, you haven’t seen Berton if you haven’t seen this:
http://www.videosift.com/video/How-to-Roll-a-Joint-With-Pierre-Berton
It was on the Rick Mercer show, another Canadian that’s worth investigating. This video is actually restricted on YouTube — you have to claim you’re an adult before they let you see it.
Considering this ran at prime time (8pm) in Canada, that gives you another idea of our sometimes-different cultures…
Also check out “The Secret World of Og” by Berton. That was one of my favourite books growing up, and might be a good one for The Kid (not sure of her age, but I think we’re in the right ballpark…)
~Graham
22 July 2009, 8:24 am
Graham,
We are never off-topic here. I am providing Maximum Reader Experience.
(I hope.)
Oh, goody, more things to look at when I need to step away from serious things! Thanks!
Later,
Kelly