Hot? Hotter? Or not so very hot…
“From our discussions, I thought you loved this work,” I say to Top Banana, after interviews and emails and a look around at the company.
“Of course! And I never stop thinking about making it better for the customer. That’s why you’re here,” my new client retorts. There’s pain in the voice, and in the short run I’m not going to fix that.
“So why don’t you talk to your customers the way you talk to me?”
Top Banana winces.
We come back to the topic of passion here at Maximum Customer Experience pretty frequently. I’m a passionate person: about Customer Experience, about your business’ growth, and about a heck of a lot of other topics. (Music, chocolate, wine, perfume, old movies, great writing, chocolate…) My passions all find their way in here eventually, because I’ll use any starter to tie in to ideas about delivering delight to your customers and growing your business. Hopefully, looking at MCE like an open box of chocolate (mmm…) once in a while, makes relating it to your own business more fun for you.
As I talk to my clients there is one thing that always comes across in conversation: their devotion—their passion—for what they do for a living. Whether it’s bistro food or web design or running a tailor’s shop or a thousand things in between, they can talk my ear off so happily that I’m carried away, too. I “get” them. I’m amazed at their uniqueness. I’m having fun, and I’m in love with what they do.
Then I visit their website. I watch them at the store with customers. I read their promotional materials, or heaven forbid, read their standardized forms. You know what happens next…
Mind-numbing sameness. Dull faces, hurried staff, “help,” online and and off, that can’t really be called helpful. Even “self-serving” is a stretch, because nobody’s being served at all by repeating the same inoffensive blather as everyone else in the field.
I mention this to you, dear reader, because I know you’re passionate like me. From your comments here at the blog, from your emails, I know you’ve got a twinkle in your eye when you’re describing what you do and what a great help you’ve been to your customers.
I challenge you, today, to have a conversation with a supportive, cheerleader-friend in which you get totally jazzed about your work. Get into the conversation. Answer questions, tell stories, and do it all without needing to promote yourself, without a case of nerves, and most importantly, without a script.
Record it.
Walk away from it until Sunday. Come back with fresh ears. Then listen to the recording: pick out the words and phrases where you were explaining the company in terms no competition can use; pick out the things that made your friend laugh or nod or aha! Listen to your voice, your mood, and even (dare I point it out?) how much younger you sound when you’re so passionately involved.
Take notes as you’re listening. You’ve got the skeleton, now, for rewriting a web page, a brochure, a menu, or a 1/4-page ad that hasn’t been pulling.
Heck, if you really dig into that passion, you may have the voice and the words for completely revamping your Presence.
Trade secret: That passion is exactly where I look for the essence of Maximum Customer Experience for your firm. It takes work to see it, and more work to put it to use, but rocking your customers’ experience has got to start with discovering what gives you joy.
Start talking to your customers the way you’d talk to me.
No official gobbledegook allowed, now: What part of your business are you passionate about?
Grow and be well,
Kelly Erickson












18 September 2009, 6:18 am
I just learned a new term related to selling a product or service- SALES MOJO- Sales Mojo which is defined by Keith Rosen (The Executive Coach) as the energy or presence that you emit during every meeting with a prospective client. It’s that allure, charisma, or vibe that you exhibit and that every one of your prospects feels from you.
WOW – that’s what I always referred to as your “passion” or “love” for the product or service you are trying to sell. To me – It’s the dealbreaker in getting someone to really listen to your pitch. Either you have it or your don’t. That does not mean you have to be borne with this trait – it comes from within from truly believing in the product or service that you are peddling. I think it develops naturally as you get to know the product or you get more confidence that the service you are providing has real benefit and value to the user.
We all go thru slumps in our business caused by things that interfere with our Sales Mojo such as:
1) unresolved personal issues in our life
2) recent tragic events in our life
3) business startegy mistakes
If we can’t think our way out of these slumps, we need to consult a qualified sales trainer who will study our technique and get us back on the road to success -like you Kelly!
18 September 2009, 8:30 am
Earl,
Well-said. I agree, it absolutely can be a dealbreaker. A lot of folks do have the passion, though—it’s only the “emitting” that’s gotten lost, which was Top Banana’s issue. He’d forgotten how to convey his passion unless he was talking in a personal conversation—and his staff were similar, great to talk to, but not in the sales/service setting.
Thanks for your comment, and welcome to Maximum Customer Experience!
Regards,
Kelly
18 September 2009, 9:36 am
great post, Kelly. yeah, we all do have a twinkle in our eyes when we talk about our passions. yet we forget to show it professionally. it’s like some school teacher from our distant past is sitting on our shoulder beating the life out of everything we put down.
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18 September 2009, 1:37 pm
Chocolate…yum.. champagne pass the Veuve please… oh okay Dom if you have it…
Clever idea.
Hm.. who would I most like to talk with….because it would make a difference don’t you think?
18 September 2009, 1:54 pm
Todd,
I was just reading something the other day talking about how we’re taught not to be curious for years in school, just behave and do what needs to be done. I don’t agree with that completely (I certainly had some teachers who encouraged originality), but I must agree with you, a lot of folks probably develop their lifeless presentation/ public face back then, trying to fit in!
(Oh, the memories.)
Janice,
I’m a huge Pommery lover myself, but if you twist my arm, the Dom will be fine.
Now we’re not looking for breathless passion here… or, at least, Top Banana wasn’t looking for that, LOL. It might make a difference, but if you’ve got someone who’s totally in your corner to try it with, I think that’s the right person.
Note this time I didn’t say “talk to your mother” because with that, your mileage may vary.
Until later,
Kelly
18 September 2009, 2:14 pm
LOL.. Yes mileage varies considerable….
Cheers.
18 September 2009, 4:39 pm
I love when people go “ohhhh” (not in that way!). My passion is for when things suddenly become clear for people and the procrastination and the fear drop away and they just do it because they choose to and want to.
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18 September 2009, 6:57 pm
Alex,
That’s a great moment—the aha! or ohhh moment. I can imagine it must be such a moment of clarity for your clients—definitely worth being passionate about.
Until later,
Kelly
19 September 2009, 10:21 pm
Top banana.
Reminds me of monkeys.
Whih remminds me of gorillas.
Which reminds me of the 20-foot inflatable kind.
That we sadly havent’ discussed on this blog for a while.
Right, BRETT?
…just sayin..
20 September 2009, 7:40 am
*sigh*