There’s a moment when dollars are about to fly out of a pocket toward somebody…
Let’s pretend.
There’s a woman out there, waiting for you. (Or a man. Bear with me for a minute.) You offer… a Beautiful Thing. Today, she will buy a Beautiful Thing.
Will it be yours?
How can you get in front of the person who wants to be touched in the way you touch people, at the moment when her dollars are about to fly out of her pocket toward somebody? And where is she looking for you?
Today, your “target market” is women, ages 35–45, living in the U.S., married with a nanny and two young children, making over $75,000 year, interested in beautifying their homes with the Beautiful Thing you sell. They read at least one home décor mag a month, showing that they have a well-trained eye, and they go out to eat more than twice a week, because of that busy dual-income household.
We know a lot about these ladies. We know what makes them tick!
All done?
Not quite. You need to sell this Beautiful Thing.
Where is this “target market” letting her dollars fly?
- art gallery
- craft fair
- giftshop
- flea market
- Walmart
- kids clothing store
- menswear shop
- hairdresser
- bookstore
- restaurant
- among others…
and don’t forget…
- vacation spots
- charity events
- online (where elements of any of the above will color her Experience)
Think hard about this. Sure, there might be a well-rounded woman or two who shops in all of those places. Yet when you take the time to think about each place—even within your “target market,” the typical woman at each is entirely different! She’s got different hobbies, different people she’s thinking of (self, family, friends…), a different time frame and objective (indulgent window-shopping, killing a little time after lunch, rushing home to smother those kids with love…), and her wallet opens differently, too (from list-only to “whatever catches my eye”).
Sure, anyone could be at each place. But you can’t wait around for “could be,” so your Beautiful Thing needs to be available where you can cater to the right woman’s needs. Which one is your Ideal Customer?
If you sell a painting that she’ll buy only one of, to bring a piece of her favorite atmosphere home with her, price it high, frame it beautifully so it’s ready to go with no hassle, and partner with the restaurant she loves most to sell your wares.
If you sell portraits of cute babies and ponies… find an indie kids’ clothing store where she can ooh and ahh when picking up clothes for the little dears or a baby shower gift for a coworker.
If you sell sock monkeys in sailor outfits… craft fair. Make lots, and make ‘em inexpensively, the margin’s going to be low.
Why I put “target market” in quotation marks
Because I think it’s a lousy, outdated term that doesn’t take you nearly far enough toward Pinpointing the one person who needs what you sell, and it doesn’t make you focus nearly hard enough on offering something that hits your “target” at the moment when she’s open to buying from you.
Two ways to look at this:
Who needs it? If you know what you sell and you know who needs it, find the place where your Ideal Customer is and be there, meeting her needs. We’ve talked about the Ideal Customer and how to meet her needs many times before.
What are you selling? If your product or service line has been a bit vague, and so far you’ve defined your Ideal Customer as “anyone who needs what we offer,” work it backwards—because aiming at anyone is the same as aiming at no one. You need to find your anyone. Whom do you most want to work with? What does she need? How can you shape what you offer to meet her needs? Where can you connect with those needs at their most obvious?
Stop offering anything to anyone, and stop thinking a target market is specific enough. You need to know who that one person is—your Ideal Customer—right down to whether she’d rather spend on herself or her kids (or her hubby!); right down to whether she’d look for you on a Tuesday afternoon or a Saturday morning—right down to every last detail.
Price, packaging, and whether there’s even a vague chance of catching her eye are all vastly influenced by how precisely you angle the offering, and where you’ll show her this Beautiful Thing.
Her dollars are about to fly out of her pocket toward somebody. Make sure it’s you who’s standing there, ready to catch the flying dollars.
Looking for a man? He’s out there, waiting for you…
You offer… a Tech-Gadget Thing. Today he will buy a Tech-Gadget Thing.
Will it be yours?
Your “target market” is men, ages 25–35, single. They own their first home, a townhouse in a major metropolitan area of the U.S. (pardon me, international readers, just trying to stay regionally-specific today), and they make around $50,000 a year.
All done?
Nope.
Where is this target market letting his dollars fly?
- computer/ tech superstore
- hardware store
- Abercrombie & Fitch
- grocery store
- Target
- gym
- barbershop
- among others…
Again, the typical man at each is entirely different, even though each may be frequented by men in the same age bracket, with the same income, in the same country, and with the same living arrangements. And yes, of course you could sell your Tech-Gadget Thing at any of these places.
I’ve known many folks who didn’t want to narrow their target market even this far. But the truth is, narrowing it down this far isn’t far enough at all.
How different is the 35-year-old waiter who buys every gadget as it comes out to show off to his buddies, from the workaholic 25-year-old with a fresh MBA who just wants a gadget to add some productivity to his day so he can keep climbing the ladder of success?
How different is the urgency for a guy whose old gadget gave out this morning from the one who wants to find something for his Dad’s birthday?
Each one shops in a different place, has a different time schedule, will be attracted to different features, different ads and reviews, different words, colors, even typefaces on the packaging.
Who needs it, and where is he? Uncover your Ideal Customer. The one person who has the money, the interest, and the need for what you have. Be there at the moment when his dollars are about to fly out of his pocket toward somebody.
What are you selling? Shape what you offer and how you present it to speak directly to the heart of that one, Ideal Customer.
Every day there’s a moment when dollars are about to fly out of a pocket toward somebody. Are you ready?
Grow and be well,
Kelly Erickson
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4 December 2009, 8:55 am
“Today, she will buy a beautiful thing…”
At WALMART?
(*snicker*)
4 December 2009, 10:00 am
This has got to be the best thing I have ever read on why you need to narrow down to that one person. I still don’t quite get *how* to make those decisions but at least I finally understand *why*.
Thank you!
Alex Fayle ¡ Someday Syndrome´s latest blog… Tackling Someday Head On: Achieving Dreams with Confidence
4 December 2009, 10:35 am
@Kelly
I agree. This has got to be the best thing I ever read, too.
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4 December 2009, 10:41 am
When I read your first target market – “women, ages 35–45, living in the U.S., married with a nanny and two young children, making over $75,000 year” – my first thought was:
Gigolo service.
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4 December 2009, 10:50 am
I’m disappointed that “Inflatable Gorilla Discount Store” didn’t make the list.
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4 December 2009, 11:13 am
“When you’re selling to anyone, you’re selling to no one.”
This is the hardest concept for some people to understand. I’ve worked with many clients who are deathly afraid of excluding possible buyers — they feel like they will be losing sales. The most difficult thing is that this sounds so logical, so “common sense” that it is hard to shake them from it.
But it leads to a sort of flatness in marketing. Because you are trying to please everybody, you avoid jargon, phrases that may exclude some people, etc. Depending on the situation, this might be a bad thing.
For example, if you’re selling Purple Widgets to web designers, you can freely use the term “PW”, which is of course the short form, or maybe even “purplies”, the insider’s pet name for them. If you’re selling to everyone, you have to spell out “Purple Widgets” a few times, and avoid purplies altogether. The web designers won’t feel as connected with this dumbed-down copy, and the web owners still may not respond either if they (subconsciously) feel that the product is above their heads anyway…
The net result isn’t that you’ve included everybody, it’s that you’ve *excluded* everybody.
Not where you want to be at all, I don’t think.
~Graham
4 December 2009, 1:13 pm
@Graham
Hmmm…that makes me rethink my marketing strategy for selling GIG’s.
(Giant Inflatable Gorillas).
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4 December 2009, 1:44 pm
Friar,
I avoid the place like the swine flu, but there are people with all levels of taste, and a small Thing that’s beautiful to a harried lady, might be found there while she searches for where they’ve hidden the Enfamil.
(And thank you for the compliment, unless of course you’re just giving me a hard time. In which case I shall continue to try to live up to your standards.)
Alex,
Thank you! Getting to that one Ideal Customer is a very complicated thing, and everybody’s got to hear it in their own way. Glad this worked for you… or came closer to the heart of the matter for you.
Brett,
Yeah, if he’s available between 5:45 and 6 am while she’s putting on her mascara…
Now there’s a specialized service.
*ahem*
Friar again—Now I’m disappointed, too. LOL.
Graham,
So true! Love those Purple Widgets.
Can we take it even further? —suppose you’re from Australia, selling your PWs, and you’ve narrowed it to web designers who work exclusively on WordPress sites because that’s what purplies work best on.
But in AUS, the local term is widgies. Sure, they know the rest of the world calls ‘em PWs and purplies, but they always have to make that cultural adjustment before they start typing into their search engine to see what the news is in the world of Purple Widgets.
You want to corner a market and make raving fans?
Stop trying to sell to the international market. Talk to your Ideal Customer, the nerdy 34 year old Aussie WordPress expert, only.
Now you’ve got a different vocabulary to use—not just talking about widgies and surprising them when a local specialist pops up on Google, but also using other local terms, referring to local situations they may run into when working on vegemite websites and wallaby conservation blogs, talking about how hot it’s going to be on Boxing Day…
Word spreads like wildfire, and every magazine in Australia wants to interview you, and when Rupert Murdoch reads one of those interviews, he asks you to do a column in whatever he’s recently taken over…
All because you’re willing to call those PWs widgies.
I could go on, but I’d need to start another post!
Regards,
Kelly
4 December 2009, 1:45 pm
@Friar – Can you tell exactly which brand of car dealership you are targeting? Or is it kid’s birthday parties? Do the moms who want to throw money at your GIG’s have more than one kid? Just trying to get specific here.
@Kelly – Great post! You didn’t mention the color of the underwear on a Tuesday in March, but I know you’re thinking about it. Funny how it seems like you’re limiting yourself by narrowing your focus. It’s counter-intuitive, but I see your point. How can you be in the right place at the right time if you don’t know everything about your customer?
My only question now is how do you find out such details? It’s got to be based on something real.
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4 December 2009, 2:06 pm
Todd,
Here’s what I see with clients: Somebody buys from them now.
Either they’re happy with who that is, or they’re not.
So we either want to find more of them, or find out why these particular people have decided this is the right widget for them, when the company thinks they should be attracting someone else, and shoo them off while bringing in the Ideal Customer (or adjust the aim and embrace the folks who are buying now).
Typically, if they’re not happy with the customers they have, the client thinks they should be attracting someone less price-sensitive, but not always.
So start from who’s buying now. Look at search terms. Interview buyers, and folks who didn’t buy. Find out who thinks they’re you’re ideal, and why. Read everything you can about your “competition” until you know where you can stand and have no competition. Mesh that with who you want to be talking to, throw in a good dash of hunches and a lot of market research…
I use this example constantly:
I’d rather have a client who wants to provide first-rate floral arrangements for gay weddings in Philadelphia than yet another florist who wants to do everything for everyone.
Need flowers? Go to the closest. Or the cheapest. Or the one who can get there fastest if you waited too long. Heck, go to the grocery store if the closest, the cheapest, and the fastest are all too inconvenient and if all you care is that you’ve got some flowers.
Ordering the flowers for Joe’s wedding to Mark? Call Alan. He’s The Only One who does gay weddings here.
And make sure you call way in advance. He’s booked for three months.
(Note: Any florist could do a gay wedding. Yet he’s seen as the only one. Top-of-the-mind when you need what he does. And Alan could do gay baby showers, straight weddings, funerals or first communions. But he only does those weddings.)
See?
Easy.
Until later,
Kelly
4 December 2009, 2:06 pm
Oh, sorry. Her underwear is lavender on Tuesdays in March.
4 December 2009, 2:16 pm
@Friar – Well that’s the flip side — size of market. The bigger your market, the more specialized you can become. So if you are in the business of giant inflatable gorillas, sometimes you’ve got to get out of that one-GIG town, or start selling GICCs as well (giant inflatable cartoon characters)…
@Kelly – I agree, though it’s a careful line. Trying to talk the local lingo when you don’t really “get it” can come off as insincere. Ad Con Bob had something to say about that here:
http://adcontrarian.blogspot.com/2009/11/brought-to-you-by-your-central-new.html
It’s important to get the jargon down, but you need to get it down right. Start talking about throwing a widgie on the barbie, and they’ll look at you all sixes and sevens-like.
BTW, where’d you hear about Boxing Day? That’s supposed to be a secret!
~Graham
4 December 2009, 2:19 pm
That sounds like a good starting point… existing customers. What if you’re starting a new business and don’t have any customers yet (just the devil’s advocate here)?
My last business had the kind of focus you’re talking about, and it made a lot of money. I was wedding photographer, and was only interested in clients who had a $5,000 and above photo budget and who didn’t want a bunch of posed shots. They bought their dresses at Sak’s, they used certain venues not others. I didn’t do a lot of other stuff either… just weddings. I became the go-to guy for my niche in very short time.
4 December 2009, 3:00 pm
@Todd
I don’t think GIG’s would be good for kids’ birthday parties. The screaming rug-rats would much prefer to have something they could jump up and down and vomit inside in…like those inflatable bouncy castles.
No, I think the long-term market strategy would be to target the used car lots and hot-tub salesman. I envision GIG truck-drivers driving these all around the country, renting them out on a rotating basis.
You have an important sales Event? Call 1-800-555-GIGs
@Graham
I don’t want to spread myself too thin? Which cartoon characters? Hanna Barbera? Disney? What about the copyright laws?
I’d much prefer to go with the generic GIG’s, where I don’t have to pay any cartoon studios royalties.
Besides, I think it’s important to stick with the gorilla formula.
Nothing says “STOP HERE AND BUY”, than the image of an angry simian beating his chest and baring his teeth.
You just don’t get the same effect with Dumbo the Elephant.
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4 December 2009, 3:06 pm
@Friar and Todd – Yeah, kids and GIGs, not a good combination. They start throwing up, and you’ve got yourself a bunch of damn, dirty apes on your hands.
Then again, maybe you could start offering GIG-accessories like GIG-Kleener and Damn-Dirty-Ape-B-Gone…
~Graham
4 December 2009, 3:13 pm
@Graham
I can just see it…if you make the GIG large enough (say 30 feet), you can leave a transparent cavity in the belly…that’s where the damned-dirty-ape-kids can rough-house and jump up and down to their heart’s content.
And the kids could wear GIG-Banana-Bags (portable water-proof yellow-colored sacs designed to contain any unfortunate accidents).
This is GREAT brainstorming we’re doing here….!
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4 December 2009, 3:22 pm
I just tried 1-800-555-GIGs. Got a video game distributor in Ohio. Can you check that number again?
I was thinking if this ideal customer thing doesn’t work out like Kelly says it will, I will try putting a giant GIG outside my office. I bet you my greeting cards and calendars will start selling like hotcakes when I get all that traffic off the busy boulevard where I work. I always say, you never know until you try!
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4 December 2009, 3:25 pm
Love it! So you can drop your kids off while you’re shopping for cars. Plus, with the transparency, it gives mothers the comfort of the illusion that you’re actually watching them.
One thing that you want to add — strings to the arms connected to the bouncy part of the belly. That way when the kids jump up and down, you see the GIG actually pounding its chest.
That will draw some shoppers fer sure.
~Graham
4 December 2009, 3:28 pm
@Todd — you can call yourself the “King Kong of Photographers”.
Though that might exclude your high-end personnel. Many a GIC (Giant Inflatable Cinderella) instead? Still gets the impact, but appeals more to the target market.
(oops, seems I’ve stumbled on-topic again. sorry.)
~Graham
4 December 2009, 3:29 pm
@Todd
I’ll have to get back to you. I think the Ohio office is now outsourcing to Bangladore.
@Graham
Oh, Yesssss! Have the kids pull the strings, make the GIG pound his chest to draw attention.
This way, your customers are not only visiting your store, but they’re actively participating in your advertising.
Now, THAT…is what I call Maximum Customer Experience!
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4 December 2009, 3:35 pm
Graham – now you’re on to something. I’m sure Kelly would agree that I just need to be more assertive. I’m going to wear a crown around town from now on (and maybe do a few TV commercials). That together with the GIG is going to transform my business. I’m really excited about this. Thanks guys!
The cool thing is that I can now finally stop doing gay weddings and start doing a little bit of everything for everyone like I always wanted to. Think about it… there’s a lot of money out there, I just need a little bit from everyone.
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4 December 2009, 3:48 pm
Kelly,
He gets up at 4 am every day, so he’d be ready and able
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4 December 2009, 4:12 pm
go away for a little while…
Graham,
Oh, yes! I loved TAC’s New Mexico Chrysler-Jeep post. As far as being sincere, that’s why I mentioned “suppose you’re from Australia” first—wouldn’t do to be guessing how to fit didgeridoo into a sentence properly. You either can discuss how Aboriginal wind instrument music can help with your widgie installation, or you simply can’t.
And on Boxing Day: Dude, I am a total Renaissance Woman (which sadly we now call a “geek”).
i.e. I know everything.
Todd,
To me, there’s nothing better than that blank slate. Then we can talk about the I.C. you want to connect with, not have to shoo anyone out, and angle both the offer and the product or service to capture that one person’s attention.
More research to replace the digging into current buyer info which we can’t do. That’s cool stuff.
As to everything else here… ROFLOL. (“GIG-Kleener and Damn-Dirty-Ape-B-Gone”; Bangladore… oh help, this is SO funny!! and so close to on-topic!!!) Todd, I’d like to apologize in advance for the demise of your business…
Y’all made my Friday.
Later,
Kelly
P.S. Brett—Have him stop by my place before he heads over to his Ideal Customer. Just trying to help out, since she doesn’t need him ’til 5:45. *ahem!*