Not too much…
1.
You’re at a networking mixer. In the half-hour for cocktails before tonight’s speaker, six or seven people introduce themselves to you. How much of what they said did you hear?
2.
A postcard arrives in he mail from the new restaurant down the street. How long did you take to read it?
3.
You’ve got to have the cool new striped tires that your friend next door’s got for his tractor before lawnmowing season begins in earnest and you’re considered hopelessly out-of-it by all the cool neighbors, so you noodle around on the web for a while to see if you can find them without having to be so uncool as to ask.
When you land on one of the twenty sites that carry the new Beach Bum Tractor Tires, how long do you spend scrolling around the home page before you decide to buy there or keep looking?
In each case:
Unless you’re a very patient person, the answer is less than 15 seconds.
You heard the first bit of what the people who introduced themselves to you said, and decided right then whether you’d keep the card they handed you or discreetly throw it later.
You read the postcard’s headline and the offer. Probably not in that order. Then you looked at the logo, remembered “Oh, yeah, that’s the new place down the way” (meaning the message was relevant to you), decided whether the offer was interesting, and held onto or tossed the card—all while poised over the trash can with the rest of the mail ready to follow it.
You did not see the name of the site or their nice intro copy. You caught the picture of the owner out of the corner of your eye (faces catch us first), you read some bolds and headlines, not necessarily in the order they were intended to be read, some words or images caught you or they didn’t. You got a trustworthy vibe or you didn’t. And it all happened in about fifteen seconds.
You know how you behaved when meeting new people—at a mixer you chose to attend, when holding your “junk” mail—with a nearby restaurant’s grand opening in the pile, and when surfing the www—for tires you just have to have to keep getting invited to the Homeowner’s Summer B-B-Q.
So why do we persist in thinking that when people meet us, see the direct mailers we send out, or click through to our website, they’ll listen longer, absorb more, do things in the order we want and read or listen from start to finish?
You’re not alone. I have to remind myself over and over again, even though I watch the results of this completely natural impatience and not-necessarily-logical order all the time.
This week I’ve seen a few too many examples in website user testing, clearly destroying the owners’ chances to get their message across, so I thought maybe I’d help you become part of our very select club here at Maximum Customer Experience: the 15-second club.
Got something to say? Get it said in 15 seconds. The first 15 seconds.
Everything else is fluff. Nice fluff, I’m sure, but for all but a patient few, it’s fluff.
Are you with me, 15-seconders? Go forth and communicate!
But not too much.
Grow and be well,
Kelly Erickson












15 March 2010, 8:31 pm
I’m with you. And those 15 seconds better give me hope to solve a problem that I have. Otherwise, my mind starts wandering.
15 March 2010, 8:37 pm
Todd,
Oooooops! Hee hee, I guess this thing is on. *ahem* Wasn’t supposed to go out until tomorrow morning.
*blushing deeply*
Anyway… yes. It’s tricky—what should be in those first 15? And I think you’ve nailed it. Solve my problem in 15 seconds (or give me hope that you can) and I’ll listen for… well, at least another 15 seconds!
Laughing still,
Kelly
15 March 2010, 8:39 pm
Very funny, considering the title of this post. You’ve got me for another 15.
15 March 2010, 8:46 pm
Exactly. The Kid and I were doing a little ROFL at the irony. After I stopped blushing.
16 March 2010, 1:38 am
That first situation had me cringing – I hated networking. So overwhelming and so much pressure to impress. {shudder}
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16 March 2010, 2:47 pm
Grab attention or die.
I have a theory that this is an evolutionary thing, that we are actually moving at a much slower pace than we are used to, genetically speaking. It hasn’t been until the last few thousand years that we’ve been able to “relax” from the constant threat of bear attacks, sabre-tooth tiger maulings, and the like. Get a bunch of guys out on a mammoth hunt, and things start moving pretty fast when you’re both the hunter and the huntee…
Flash forward to today, and although it seems like our world is speeding up, it’s all relative. We were much more relaxed a hundred years ago, but today we are still not in the (literally) constantly panicked state we’re genetically wired to be used to. Today’s push in technology, the “information overload”, is not overload at all, but our primal quest to constantly stimulate our senses.
In other words, our bodies are hard-wired to always be on high alert, so when we no longer have to worry about the Ravenous Bugblatter Beast of Traal, we naturally gravitate to things that will simulate that rush.
In other, other words, information overload is not a degradation of the times, but a sign that we can finally — and semi-safely — artificially over-stimulate ourselves without the risk of actually getting eaten. (I say semi-safely because it still causes stress, which is bad in the long term. But biologically speaking, we’re supposed to die by age 30, so that’s our problem, not Nature’s…)
We also have built-in filters that subconsciously only allow us to focus on the single most important piece of information out there. So even if someone wants to pay attention to you, they literally can’t if you don’t give them a reason for you to be the absolute #1 focus in their lives in that short moment.
Once again to sum up: Grab attention or die.
(Anyone still with me? lol…)
~Graham
16 March 2010, 4:13 pm
Graham – I think you’re right. We’ve been carrying this survival tactic forever. Pay attention to it in your marketing or die!
17 March 2010, 4:49 pm
Yes, the more I think about it, the more it’s intrinsic. It’s also natural for us to try to gain attention, to “advertise” ourselves. The peacock’s feathers, the rhino’s horns… whatever it takes to pass our genetic legacy down.
And those who don’t, literally do die out…
~Graham
23 March 2010, 6:50 am
Alex,
I hear you. To this minute I hate getting together with people—networking, meetings, any of it. Which is part of why I do it daily.
(I’m weird like that. I have a horror of public speaking, so I did it competitively in high school and performed in theatre for many years. I haven’t gotten over it, haha, but I can act like I have.)
Graham,
Anthropology meets MCE! I love it.
I’ve always believed in it in personal relations (the peacock theory… the kids on Queen Street in TO all pierced up and in their leathers *are* advertising, but not to me, etc…)—but I’ve never thought of it in quite this way for business. Excellent theory. I’m with you too.
& “Grab attention or die” should be the name of a book.
Until later,
Kelly